Me Dr. Shirish Malde, sexologist, Mumbai based hun. Aaj hum ek aisi samasya ke barey mein baat karenge jisse humari kafi population pareshan rehti hai. Humara vishaye rahega sexuality at aging. Barhti hue umar ke sath sath sex ke mayne kaise badalte hain ya sex samasiyaen kia kia asakti hain uske barey mein hum jaankari lenge. Tau doston sabse pehle tau yeh batadun ke umarab barhna yeh koi sex ke liye badhya nahi hai. Yeh ek natural process hai agr barhti hue umar mein bhi kisi bhi viqti chahe who sitri ya purush agr uske sex ki ichcha agar barkarar rehti hai tau yeh bilkul normal hai. Halanke agar ichcha nahi hai tau unko fiqar kerne ki zarurat hai. Jaise umar barhti hai sharer mein kafi badlao atay hain mansik badlao bhi atey hain tau aise mein yeh badlao kia ayenge iske barey mein agar ap koi jankari hogi tau ap jau kabhi kabhi jau fiqar hoti hai jau kabhi kisi cheez ki anxiety hoti hai use bach sakte hain. Umar barhti hai waise purushon mein jau badlao jau dekhe gae hain us mein yeh hota hai ke erection aney mein thora lamba samey lagta hai, uktejana ki ziada zarurat hoti hai, aur us viqti ko apne female partner se bhi uktejina milne ki buhat ziada zarurat mehsoos hoti hai. Istrion mein halanke yeh dekha gaya hai ke unki bhi sex ki ichcha barqarar rehti hai aur jau sharerrak badlao atey hain who kafi had tak hormones ke related hote hain.purushon mein yeh hormones jab kam hote hain particularly androgens jisey mainly testosterone jau hormone hai yeh kam hone se viqti mein ek jau samsya nirmaan hoti hai jisey andropause kehte hain yeh istrion mein jau menopause hota hai uske barabar ka shabd hai. Is mein kam hue hormones ke chalet chalet viqti mein chirchirapan,thakan jaldi mehsus kerna, kaam kaaj ke doran use phurti na hona aur sex mein erection thek se na ana ya jau sex ki ichcha hai kamik ichcha mein kam hona yeh parmokh lakhshan hain. Istion mein bhi mood change hona yeh menopause ka eke ham laqshan hai. Uske sath sath shareerak badlao jau hote hain usme lubrication ka kam hona jae mah se jau discharge ata hai usme kam hona yeh parmokh lakhshan hain. Is wajah se unhe kabhi kabhi kuch sex ki samasyain sata sakti hain. Uske elawa life mein jau barhti hue umar ke sath jau 40-45-50 saal ki jab hum baat kerte hain tab insan ki life mein kafi badlao ata hai. Jaise who profession mein ziada responsible position per puhanchta hai chahe job ho,yah business ho uska apna khudka tau wahan per jau demanding nature hai who ziada hojata hai kion k eek position si hoti hai insan ki uss waqt ki tau uske pas zimedarian kafi hoti hain. Sath mein hi domestic front pe uske ghar pe bachay barhe hue hote hain 20-22 saal mein uska jau education ke waqt uska ek ahem bhomika hojati hai aur usi ke sath sath unke parents jau 60s-70s ki age mein puhanchte hain unke samasyain bhi kafi rehti hain. Tau yeh insan 40s-50s mein ek aise cross road per aker ke khara hai jahan per usko apni niji life aur apne parewar jinon ki health parewar jinon ka education yeh sab cheezon ke barey mein uske liye sochna buhat zaruri hojata hai. Tau aise mein insan kafi kabhi stress mehsus kerta hai kafi tanao mehsus kerta hai, sath hi mein usko apni fitness ka bhi buhat hi dehan rakhna zaruri hai. Kyun ke yeh who umar hai jahan per diabetes, blood pressure,cholesterol jaise life tell diseases bhi apna sar uthati hain aur insan ki apni health mein kafi diqatein paida ker sakti hain. Tau aise mein apko sirf yehi kahunga ka umarab jaise barhti hai 50-55 ke agey bhi jaise sex ka ichcha hona bilkul normal hai yeh ghalat bilkul nahi hai. Halanke ek soch hoti hai insan ko abhi vanabparastam yani 50 saal ki umar mein yeh sab chor ker ke bhagwaan ke naam mein ziada vaist rehna chahye. Me tau yeh kahunga ke bhagwan ke naam mein apko pehle se hi vaist tehna hai sirf 50 ke baad nahi. Lekin jau sharer ki jau zaruratein hain,mann ki jau zaruratein hain uske oper hum drulaksh nahi kersakte hain. Who bhi utna hi importance rehte hain humari life mein tau uska bhi jaisey jaise mauqa milta hai jaise husband aur wife ko niji ek privacy rehti hai who bilqul barqarar rakhni chahye aur sexual relation qaim rakhna chahye. Ek common saying hai “use it or lose it” yeh saying humare sharer ke pushton ke liye sharer ke sab organs ke liye hi utna hi lagu hota hai ke jis organ ka apne istemaal kerna band kerdiya tau who organ apni shamta gawah bethta hai. Tau mitron yeh buhat zaruri hai ke hum fitnessmaintain karen ta ke hum achi health guzar saken, bimarian aone nazdeek na hun aur ap apni life ka jau anand hai who sahi tarah se utha sakte hain kion ke wigyan ne kafi taraqqi ki hai umrab barhne ke sath sath agar apnki joints mein taqleef hoti hai, had se ziada taqleef hojati hai tau ap joints replace kerwate hain, dant agar gir jate hain tau ap dant naye bithate hain,sar mein agar baal pak jate hain ya gir jate hain tau aap wig lagate hain,moti bindu mein hum lens change kerwate hain waise hi sex life mein bhi zarurat parhne per hum dawayon ka istemaal kerke humari sex life ko barqarar rakh sakte hain. Tau mitron yeh baat dehan rahe barhti hue umar humari sex life mein bilkul badah nahi dalti hai, badah agar dalti hai tau woh humari soch hai. Kisi ne theek kaha hai ke insan shareerak roop se bura pehle nahi hota hai mansik roop se apni soch se pehle bura hota hai. Tau aye humein apni soch badalni hai hum forever young rahenge aur forever young mehsus karenge.
Aur kisi ki jankari ke liye ap mera contact ker sakte hain ya appointment fix kersakte hain Lybrate yeh app ke zariye. Yeh Lybrate ka health app hai yeh kafi useful apko sabit hosakta hai. Dhanewaad!read more
Doston! Dr. Shirish Malde, sexologist Mumbai ka ap sab hi ko namashkar.
Hum aksar dekhte hain ke jau technology hai jis tarah se barhti hai humein kia kia naye ayaam dikhati hai.
Ab hum baat ker rahe hain internet ki. Ek zamana tha jab internet buhat bari luxury hua kerti thi aur ajwaqt hai ke internet har sab hi ki pocket mein apke unglion ke sparsh ke oper available hogayahai aur who bhi unlimited data ke sath.tau doston yeh cheezon ka humari niji life per buhat hiasar parhta hai aur khas ker ke hum agar sex life ki baat karen tau data available hone ke sathsath pornography bhi buhat easy available hogae hai. Han! Aur who bhi sab ko apni apni privacy apni niji space mein. Tau iska humare sex life per tau asar parhega hi tau hum dekhenge yeh kistarah se parh raha hai. Aj dekheye pornography viewing mein humara desh Hindustan panchwain number per hai. Aur yeh kafi had tak kafi log iska istemal kerte hain, isko dekhtehain, kuch log kam kuch log ziadadekhte hain aur iski asar tau rahegi hi humari sex life ke operjis tarah se logon ke sawal atey hain iske oper se humne yeh kuch findings bataye hain.particularly humare desh mein pornography itni kyun popular hai? Tau iska sabseimportant ek jawab yeh hai ke humare yahan formal sex education yani jise hum yawn shikshankehte hain uski kami hai. Ab jis cheez ki kami ho, jis cheez ka knowledge na ho, knowledge hotabhi hai tau apne friendon se mila hua tuta phuta knowledge hai aur yeh jau half knowledge haiyeh humein kafi taqleef mein rakh sakta hai. Tau isi wajah se log jau kehte hain na “forbiddenfruit is always more tasty” waise jis cheez ka partiband hai who cheez humein ziada akarshidkerti hai. Aur isi ko le ker ke yuva verg khas ker ke pornography ke peche kafi samay viyat kerta hai. Ab iska asar hota yun hai ke log isey sex education ka ek zariya samajh bethte hain. Halan ke bilkul aisa nahi hai. Yeh mera spashmat hai pornography hai yeh ek sirf uttay jina nirmand kerneke liye agar dekhi jaye usko sirf casually dekha jaye tab tak thek hai lekin jab ap isko ek limit kebahar jaise ap chale jate hain tau yeh khatre ki ghanti bajata hai apke liye. Khas ker ke us waqtjab ap isey sex education ka zariya samajhte hain. Kyunke pornography mein jau yeh dikhatehain yeh sab hi cheezain qanoonan tor pe mumkin nahi hoti hain khas ker ke child pornography, violent sex, animal sex yeh sari cheezain qanoonan partiband hain aur naytik roopse bhi yeh sari cheezain ghinoni hain. Aksar isey ap education tool samajh ker ke agey barhtehain tau kafi taqleef mein asakte hain. Khas ker ke who yuva jau pornography mein dikhate hain who actors ke jau angupang hain usko dekh ker ke apne ap mein kafi hindbhawana mehsoos kerte hain. Ek parkar ki inferiority complex mehsoos kerte hain jaise ling ka akaar hai ya sambuqka jau samay dikhaya jata hai isko le ker ke logon ke mann mein kafi brahmanain paida hoti hainaur who apne apko inferior samajhne lagte hain aur aise cases kafi manokchikat ke liye atey hain. Waise dekhye jaye tau dekhye yeh ek industry hai jahan per modelling ek vayosaye haiyeh aise models ko choose kerte hain jau is industry ke liye fit hote hain. Tau isko dekh ker kesab hi logon ko apni tulna nahi kerni hai aur khuan ma khuan inferiority complex nahi bananahai. Dusra pornography apko addict banata hai, yeh aisi cheez hai jau apko bar bar dekhne permajboor kerta hai ap isme apna kafi qeemti waqt vastvayat kerte hain aur kafi apki education,job mein kafi pichrey reh sakte hain.apna niji personal life bhi is mein kafi disturbhota hai aur sab se mehtapurne baat hai ke isme forceful sex dikhate hain, violent sex dikhatehain yeh kafi had tak samaj mein yeh forceful sex ko uttayjit bhi kerta hai tau humein isko bilkulhi education tool ke hisab se nahi lena hai. Aur jaise hi yeh pornography ka humein addictionbhi nahi rakhna hai uske badley humein apne apko ziada se ziada productive work mein involvekarye. Internet available hai tau isey ap achi jankari prapt karye, kafi achi jankari apko mil sakti hai aur na ke pornography dekh ker kea p yeh sab ghalat fehmiyan nikalen. Doston! Mera apsenumra amurad rahega keh pornography kea p balli nahi banye, usko excitement ke roop se apdekh ker ke lightly lijeye aur uska anand utha sakte hain baqi usko academic tool mat banayega.
Ap is barey mein aur kuch jankari janna chahte hain ya appointment fix kerna chahte hain tauap Lybrate yeh app ke zariye contact ker sakte hain. Dhanewaad!read more
Sexologist Dr. Shirish Malde Mumbai se ap sab hi ko namashkar. Aj hum is mudday per baat karenge jau hum humare Lybrate app per questions ka samna kerte hain. Samajh lijeaye humare 50% jau sawal hain who inhi common samasiyoun ke liye humein pochay jatey hain.Tau hum buhat hi quickly hum in common questions se jau frequently asked questions hainuske barey mein hum jankari denge. Sab se agar ziada sawal ate hain tau ate hain Penis ke yanipurush ke shish ke lambae aur chorea ke barey mein. Tau doston ek simple me apko answerdunga ke agar kisi bhi viqti ka ling uthay ki tavasdha mein 3 inch ya uske oper hai tau us viqti kaling normal size hai waise viqti ke anushaar jaise uska qadd kam ziada hota hai uski height kamziada hoti hai waise ling ki bhi size kam ziada hosakti hai. Lekin 3 inch ke oper hai uthay kitavasdha mein tau yeh norma lmana jata hai us viqti ke liye bhi aur uske partner ke liye bhi.Kyoun ke sambuq ke waqt size does not matter. What actually matters is the sctual skill of love making and time duration. Mitron second most common samasya hoti hai shigar patan yapremature ejaculation ki, tau doston ek baat yaad rakheye sambuq mein kuch standard timenahi hota hai. Apke sawamann mein sawal ayega ke minimum kitna hona chahye. Tau jawabyeh hai ke dono ki santushti ho tab tak. Iske liye apko ghari mein dekhne ki zarurat nahi hai aurwaise ek baat ka yaad rakheye ke jab samboq naya hota hai jaise young generation hai unka jabfirst initial sex hota hai tab uttayjina buhat taizi se barhne ki waja se veere patan jaldi hojata hai.Phir kuch log aise hain jau samboq ka jau hai unhe chance buhat kam milta hai tau aise logon mein bhi jaisay lambay arse ke baad samboq hota hai kabhi kaam kaaj ke, krobar ke waja se,ghar se durr rehne wali viqti jab ghar lotti hai us waqt bhi who uttayjit hoker bhi buhat jaldi veerepatan hojata hai , yeh ek aam samasya hai normal hoti hai. Shigarpatan tau sabsecommon samsya hai hi lekin uske sath sath uski other side yani delayed ejaculation, kuch viqtiko samboq mein buhat late veere patan hota hai ya hota hi nahi hai. Aksar aise log bhi hote hainjau infertility ke samasya ke liye dhanto ki pareksha dene who laboratory mein jate hain aur who masturbation ker ker ke apna dhanto nahi de pate hain unka veerepatan hota hi nahi hai.Tau doston yeh sari samsyaen kafi had tak mansik samsya se jurri hue hoti hain aur iske operachi tarah se control develop kerna yeh seekhne wali cheez hai. Jaise insan gari chalana seekhna hota hai ya pani mein tairna seekhna hai who regular practice ke zariye hi seekh patey hain.Waise hi shigarpatan ke oper bhi control bhi ek regular exercise se hi seekh sakte hain. Aur absab se ziada jau mahaz samsya logon ko satati hai yeh hai hans matun ke sath sath unke mannmein jau hazaron sawal rehte hain aur veerepatan se hone wale nuqsan ke barey mein unke mann mein hazaron duwedhaiyen rehti hain kyoun ke aksar kafi had tak yeh neem hakeem duwara yeh phelaye gae ek yeh brahmina hoti hai keh hans matun kerne se falan hojata haihans matun kerne se dikna hojata hai. Halanke hans matun ko vigyan ne ek normak kareyamana gaya hai even humara jau purana kamashastara hai vashtun doshtri ka likha hua haiunhon ne bhi isey pani metrun yani pani yani sankrit mein hath tau hans matun ek normal kiryahai yeh humare vastayan ke kamasutrye mein bhi dikhaya gaya hai tau yeh ek normal kirya hai isse sharer ka oper koi bhi viper prenaam nahi hota . tau young doston ya dost jinke pas partner available nahi hai who hans matun ka preyok ker ke apne apko ya apni sex ki ichcha ko normalrakh sakte hain yeh bilkul normal cheez hai. sharer mein jau veere uska nirman utserjin ke liyeyani bahar nikalne ke liye hi kiya gaya hai na ke sharer mein rehne ke liye. Is liye agr veeriyast kautsarjan hojata hai veeriyast khalan hojata hai tau bhi sharer ke oper koi viprit prenam nahihota yeh baat ap dehan rakhen.
Tau mitron yeh samsyaein ya isse milti julti aur bhi buhat sarisamasyain hun ya duwedha paida kerne wale koi preshant hun tau ap mera contact lybrate yeh health app ke dujerye ker sakte hain aur appointment bhi book ker sakte hain.
Causes and treatment for Erectile Dysfunction
Namaskar mitron! Main Dr. Shirish Malde Mumbai se sexology mein specialize karta hu aur aaj jo hum ye video ke dwara jo jaankari lenge ye humari jo sabsi badi samasya hoti hai, erectile dysfunction, ya isse impotence bhi kaha jata hai, iske baare mein hum jaankari lenge. Aap dekh rahe hai ki erectile dysfunction ye ek kaafi hadh tak ek samasya hai jo young age se lekar bade umar tak kisi bhi wyakti ko bhi ho sakta hai. Waise ling mein kadakpan aur uthaan aana, ling mein erection aana, ye wyakti ke marzi ke hisaab se nahi hota hai. Jaise hum apni marzi se paseena nahi nikaal paate, ye paristithi ke upar nibhar karta hai, waise hi ling mein uthaan aana ye bhi paristithi ke upar aur wyakti ke utejna ke upar nibhar karta hai.
Jab kisi wyakti ko ling mein uthaan lane mein ya lambe samay tak tikane mein takleef hoti hai wo asamarth hota hai, tab isse erectile dysfunction ya impotence kaha jata hai. Normally iski do wajah hoti hi; psychogenic yaani maansik kaarano se aur dusra hota hai physical yaani shaaririk shamta ke abhav se ye samasya nirmaan ho sakti hai. Toh hum short mein dekhege ye samasya kaise nirmaan hoti hai. Jaise hum kahege psychological problem toh kuch wyaktiyon ko lack of knowledge yaani sahi jaankari nahi hoti hai ya unhe fail hone ka darr bana rehta hai, kabhi kabhi couple mein communication thik nahi hone ke wajah se ya relationship disturb hone se bhi ling mein uthaan aane mein takleef hoti hai. Kayi baar wyakti bore hai ya stress hai, kabhi usko adequate rest nahi milta hai ya depression hai ya anxiety hai, aisi samasyaon se bhi usko jis waqt wo chahta hai us waqt uske ling mein uthaan nahi laa paata hai. Isko psychogenic problem kehte hai.
Aur ab dekhoge ke kuch organic problems hote hai, physical problem jaise diabetes, aur hypertension, ye bahut hi common rog hai jisse ling mein tanaav lane mein difficulty hoti hai us wyakti ko. Kuch medicines bhi hai jaise diabetic aur hypertension ki medicines hai jiske side effects ke chalet bhi ling mein tanaav aana mushkil ho jata hai. Toh ye hua kaaran ke wajah se, ab aap dekhoge ki impotence ya erectile dysfunction ke tests kya hai. Aksar ache doctor detail history lete hai aur ussi se unhe pata chal sakta hai ki ye samasya kis wajah se hai lekin kuch cases mein jaha diagnosis ke liye test ki zarurat hoti hai tab ye tests behadd zaruri hoti hai. Sabse pehli test hoti hai Intracavernosal Injection Vasoactive Drugs yaani penile Doppler test bhi keh sakte hai isse. Isme wyakti ki ling ki jo raktovayiniya hai uski rakht paribhraman kitna ho raha hai ye check kiya jaata hai. Ye test mein chota sa injection ling mein diya jaata hai aura aage chal ke aap dekhoge ke sonography se ye graph dikhta hai jisse blood flow ka velocity check kiya jaata hai.
Aur ek test hai Penile Angiography yaani agar rakhtvayiniya mein koi samasya nirmaan hume nazar aati hai toh angiography ke zariye wo block kaha par hai wo exactly hum pata kar sakte hai. Aur ek test isme use hoti hai wo hai NPT Scan Monitor yaani Nocturnal Penile Tumescence Test, isme wyakti ki puri raat mein aane wali erection machine dwara record ki jaati hai aur dusre din ye graph nikaala jaata hai. Normal wyakti ka graph aisa hota hai jaha pe wo teen se chaar episode erection ke usko aate hai aur ye aise wyakti ka graph hai jaha koi bhi erection nahi aaya hai raat ko. Toh isse unke bloof flow mein samasya hai ya nahi ye usse pata chal sakta hai. Abhi treatment ka jaha tak sawaal hai, aap dekh rahe hai ke treatment mein sabse ahem bhumika hoti hai counseling or sex education ki, jaise maine bataya tha ki kuch log darr se ya sahi jaankari na hone ke aabhav se peedit hote hai, unke liye ye bahut zaruri hoti hai. Kuch conditions mein oral drug dena zaruri hota hai yaani medicines ki zarurat hoti hai aur kayi case mein jaha medicine kaam nahi karti hai waha self-injections jo humne dekhe the wo de sakte hai, vacuum erection device bhi isme useful ho sakta hai aur last mein surgery ke dwara bhi ye problem solve ki jaa sakti hai.
Surgery mein Penile Prosthosis yaani penile implantation hota hai. Ab ek ke baad ek hum dekhege ke kuch medicines hai jo Sildenafil, Vardenafil, Tadalafil, ye wyakti ko erection lane mein kaafi helpful hote hai. Ye Intracavernosal Injection jaha wyakti khud hi apne aap ko injection de sakta hai mein aur 2-5 minute mein acha erection haasil kar leta hai. Next hai ye vacuum pump ke zariye bhi ling mein erection paaya jaa sakta hai aur last mein ye penile prosthesis jo silicone rods hote hai jo ling mein bithaye jaate hai jiske zariye wyakti ling mein tightness paa sakta hai. Toh aap ne ye dekha is video mein ki ling mein tightness lane ki jo samasya hai ye kaafi aam, young age se lekar old age tak sabhi vyaktiyon ko ye samasya kabhi na kabhi life mein ho sakti hai. Lekin agar sahi jaankari ho aur yogya maarg darshan mile toh is samasya se aap humesha ka chutkaara paa sakte hai aur puri tarah se ye treat kar sakte hai.
Iski aur adhik jaankari ke liye aap mujhe contact kar sakte hai lybrate.com ke zariye. Dhanyawaad.read more
Get rid of Premature Ejaculation
Namashkar Mitron! Main Dr. Shirish Malde, sexologist, Mumbai se. Aaj apko purusho ko satani wali ek sabse badi samsya ke barey mein kuch maarg darsan dunga. Yaun sambandh mein yeh ek common samasya kahi jaati hai, yeh hai premature ejaculation yah shighra patan. Iska definition aap agar dekhogey toh thoda sa lambi chaudi hogi lekin agar short mein kahey toh premature ejaculation uss samasya ko kehte hai jaha vyakti ka virya skhalan who jab chahta hai ussey jaldi ho jata hai aur uss wajah se woh vyakti ka aur uske partner ka yaun samadhan nahin ho pata hai, isss samasya ko hum premature ejaculation kehte hai. Waise iss samasya kko agar hum thoda detail mein janna chahey toh clinically hum iss samsya ko 3 bhaago mein divide karte hai,
Grade 1 hai orgasm before entry, orgasm yani ki virya skhalan hona. Kuch vyakti o ki yeh samasya itni badi hoti hai ki yoni se prabesh karne se pehli hi skhalit ho jatey hai.
Grade 2 mein aisi vyakti hoti haijinka virya skhalan yoni prabesh ke baad turant ho jata hai.
Grade 3 mein aisi vyakti hotey hai jo yoni pravesh kar patey hai thoda sa thrusting bhi hota hai lekin who zyada samay tak virya ko nahin rok patey hai aur skhalan ho jata hai.
Yeh teeno catagry mein vyakti ka samadhan nahin hota hai naa hi unka partner ka samadhan hota hai. To hiss tarah se vyakti agar kabhi iss samsya ko lekar ke humarey paas aati hai toh hum detail History mein jaan kar ki who kaunse grade mein hai yeh pehle pata karte hai phir usko ilaaj ke liye bataya jaata hai. Aksar hum dekhte hai kaafi log iss mein apne taraf se kuch na kuch treatment karne ki kosish krte hai, yaani kuch logo ne dekha hai ki koi cream yah spray use karte hai jissey thoda sa faida hota hai. Yeh cream anesthetic cream, gel yah spray hota hai jissey ling ka bahari hissa sunn ho jata hai wahan koi sensation mehsus nahin hota hai. Iss wajah se kuch logo ko faida hota hai.
Kuch log sambhog ke samay dhyan ko dusri taraf khichte hai taa ki unke uttejana kam ho jaye. Kuch log alcohol ka use karte hai ta ki alcohol ki affect se uttejana mein thodi kami ho jati hai. Kuch log sambhog se pehle hasth maithun ka upyog karte hai. Aur kuch log sambhog ke waqt condom ka istemaal karte hai, taki ling ka direct contact na ho aur uttejjana kam ho jati hai. Toh yeh sab aisa treatment hai jo hamesha upyogi nahin hoti hai. Kabhi kabhi ksii vyakti ko thoda sa faida agar de deti hai lekin kayam swarup se faida nahin de paati hai, toh yeh sab treatment yeh samsya ke liye mein koi zyada faida nahin krti hai.
Aksar yeh samsya ke liye koi test ki zarurat nahin hoti hai, koi laboratory investigation ki zarurat nahin hoti hai, aur iss mein control develop karna yeh vyakti ke liye ek seekhne wali cheez hai. Aksar kuch log jab kaafi arse ke baad sex karte hai, jaise job ke liye kahin bahar rehna, parivar se door rehna aise vyaktio mmein bhi shuru mein premature ejaculation ki samasya reh sakti hai, lekin jab niyamit roop se partner ke sath raha jata hai tab yeh samsya nahin rehti hai. Kuch log vivah ke purv laingik sambandh banate hai unlogo ki kabhi kabhi yeh samsya hoti hai. Kyun ki agar privacy sahi nahin hai aisi tension wali paristhitio mein bhi vyakti ka premature ejaculation ho jana swavabik hai. To hiss samsya ke do karan hai ek ling mein samvendanshilta zyada hona, yah vyakti ka threshold kam hona yani who sex ki uttejna zyada der tak bardast nahin kar pata hai aur thodi si uttejna mein hi usko virya skhalan ho jata hai.
Abb hum treatment mein dekhengey, toh iska treatment medicine se bhi sambhab hai, aur medicine se agar accha response milta hai, vyakti ka samay badh jata hai toh behavioral therapy ke zariye lambe arsey tak control develop kar pata hai. Medixine mein kuch log anesthetic gel yah spray ka istemaal karte hai, kuch medicines hai jo vyakti ko virya skhalan rokne mein madad deti hai yah rare cases mein ling mein lene waley injections se bhi faida ho sakta hai. Yeh hum dekh rahey hai behavioral therapy hai (displays on computer screen). Jissey stop and start technique yah squeeze method kaha jata hai. Iss mein vyakti kya karta hai ki jaise hi uttejna purn paristhiti nirmaan hoti hai vyakti ko beech mein yah toh stop hona hai, yah squeeze de kar ke uttejna kam karni hai ta ki uska virya skhalan ka samay badh sakey. Toh yeh jo shighra patan yah premature ejaculation ka samsya hai iss mein medicine ke zariye yah behavioral therapy ke zariye iss mein control haasil kiya jaa sakta hai.
Iss ke barey mein adhik jaankari ke liye aap mujh se Lybrate.com par sampark kar sakte hai. Dhanyabaad.
The causes, symptoms and Homeopathic treatment for Male Infertility
Namaskar main Mumbai se Dr Shirish C Malde. Aaj aapko male infertility yaani purusho mein hone wali baanjhpan ki samasya ke baare mein aapko kuch batana Chahoonga.
Aksar Hamare samaj mein pehle se hi ek aisa ravaiya raha hai ki Jab bache bache Paida nahi hote Kisi couple ke to hamesha hi istri ki taraf ungli uthaayi jaati hai. Uski treatment, investigation saare istri k hi karaye jaate hai. Kai case me baccha nahi hone k kaaran purish dusri shaadi bhi kr leta hai. Or kabhi kabhi aise case me samasya jyo ki tyo rhti hai. Kyunki aise case me samasya istri me ni lekin kabhi kabhi purusho mein bhi hoti hai. Ye samasya ko purusho ki wajah se Hone Wale baanjhpan ya male infertility Kaha Jata Hai. Iski mukhya teen Wajah hoti hai. Ya Sambhog ke dauran Purush Apna veerya istri ke Sharir Mein barabar aaropan nahi kar pata hai.
Ya kabhi kabhi Purush ke shukra jantu me yaani veerya mein kuch kharaabu hoti hai, Jis wajah se wo Baap Nahi main samarth nahi hota toh sambhog mein agar koi takleef hai Jaise ling Main barabar Khadapan nahi aata hai ya veerya patan bahut hi jaldi ho jata hai aise cases Mein Hum Pehle bhi dekh chuke hain ki kya treatment leni chahiye. Uske liye aap dusra video Mera dekh sakte hain. Abhi hum jo hum Dekhenge Ki veerya Mein jo Kami hai ya pareshani Nazar Aati Hai to usse Kaise Hal Kiya jata hai. Treatment Mein sabse phle Pehle pursho ki poori Jaanch hoti hai. Uske biolangik abhiavavya ang hai uski tapaas hoti hai. Agar andkosh ka sahi se Vikas nahi hua hai toh kyu nahi Hua Hai Iski Bhi jaanch ki jati hai.
Kuch cases mein hormones ki bhi investigation Hona zaroori hai aur sab se mahatvapoorna Veerya ka laboratory testing karna. Aap Ko Yeh jaankar hairaani Hogi ki striyo mein bahut si testing Ki Zaroorat hoti hai aur Akshar Kafi test mein hospitalization bhi zaroori Hota Hai. Jab ki purusho mein aisa nahi hai. Purusho mein takreeban 80 percent investigation semen analysis yani Veerya ki tapaas se ho jati hai aur wahi par khatam ho jati hai. Agar Purush jo veerya dene Jata Hai laboratory me tab bhi usse kuch Baatein Dhyan mein rakhni chahiye. Kai baar pressure ki wajah se matlab maansik pressure ki wajah se woh laboratory Mein Dhatu nahi de pata hai. Toh aise case Mein Hume usse sahi dhngse guidance Dena zaroori hai. Jab wo apna sample deta hai wo laboratory Mein To Shaam ko jab report Uske Haath Mein Aati Hai, Tab us report mein kuch do teen cheez hoti hai Sabse pehle hai shukranu ki sankhya aur doosri sukranu ki gatishilta Kaisi hoti hai. Ye dono hi cheeze bde maine rakhti hai, prusho ki unki jo capacity hai, fertility capacity Woh in cheezo ka dhyaan rakhti hai. 2 sperm count jo hai World Health Organisation ke manual ke hisab se 20 million yani 2 crore per ml of semen Hona zaroori hai. Agar count is se kam hai Toh us Purush ko aur kuch test ki shayad jarurat pad sakti hai Kyunki come Count me baccha karna Mushkil Hota Hai aur dusra hota hai shukranu ki gatishilta.
Takriban 50 pratishat sukranu ki jo gatishilta hai vo acchi hone chahiye Aur Yeh forward progressing hone chahiye. Agar gatishilta kaam hai aur mrit shukranu jyada hai ya bilkul movement nahi karne wale sukranu jyada hai Toh aise case maybe kuch aur tapaas Ki Zaroorat hoti hai aur Jaise Karan Milte Hain us hisaab se treatment Hona zaroori hai. Physical examination Mein Ek Aur baat dhyaan ki Jati Hai Wo hoti hai varicocele. Kuch purusho ki jo shukranalikaaye hoti hai wahan or rakt purotak krne wali jo nalikaaye hoti hai, rakt vahini hoti hai wo kabhi kabhi fool jaati hai. Jis wajah se andkosh Ke Aas Paas ka tapman Bad jata hai aur wahan par Bhi sukranu ki sankhya Mein ya gatishilta mein kami Aati Hai aur Aisa kuch paya jata hai to uska Doppler test Kiya jata hai Aur Us hisab Se Purush ko kabhi kabhi Ek chota sa surgery karna padta hai Jahan Par fooli hui nase Hai Woh bandhi Jati Hai Taki Jo badne wala temperature Woh normal Rahe. Is vericocele operation ke baad takriban 50 pratishat Purusho mr count me vridhi aur gatishilta may bhi vriddhi Aati Hai. Kabhi kabhi Aise Bhi cases aate hai jaha par sukranu Sabhi mrit Hote Hain ya kabhi kabhi Aise Bhi cases hote hain Jahan veerya me shukranu ki sankhya 0 hoti hai. Isse azoospermia Kehte Hai. Azoospermia do Tarah Ke Hote Hai medical azoospermia aur Surgicals azoospermia.
Surgical azoospermia me shukranu ka jo pathway hai woh Kahi na Kahi block Hota Hai Jis Se Shukranu andkosh me taiyar Hote Hai Lekin bahar nikal nahi paate hain. Aur aise kaise Mein Ek Choti si surgery operation hoti hai Jis Se Ek bypass banaya jata hai jaha par rukawat ho aur Is Tarah Se Rasta open kia jata hai jisse shukranu Bahar Aa Jaye Aisa treatment Kiya jata hai. Dusri jo samasya Hoti Hai medical azoospermia Jis me sukranu Sharir Mein Banta Hi Nahi Hai aur Issi wajhe se Woh Bahar Nahi Aate Hain Kyon Ki Banti Nahi Hai. To Aise case me bhi us couple ko doctor ko mil kar ke is Samay aur aage kya karna chahiye uski Jankari leni chahiye.
Aajkal technique or facility Itni achi ho rahi hai ki aise Mein Logon Ko Mandir ja kar ke Mannat Hai Karna 1 apne aap Mein Shraddha ka Vishay hai lekin uske saath mein hai medically bhi unhone poore test Karke kaaran kya hai bachcha nahi karne ki iska test karna chahiye aur Khaas Karke purusho ko Apna ego side mein rakh Kar Ke is test ko Lekar ke aage badhne chahiye Kyuki purusho ki jo samasya hoti hai vo kai baar bahut hi kam kharch Main Aur bahut hi jaldi sulajh Jati Hai. Aur Aisa Na Ho ki Purush ki samasya ke liye bahut Baar stri ko test or investigation ke liye Jana pad raha hai aur isliye gents couple ko bachcha nahi theherta Hai shadi ke 1 saal paschaat bhi normal Sambhog hone ke bawjud bhi bacha nahi theherta hai toh unko sabse Pehle Purush Ka tapass hona chahiye.
Agar koi problem hai to usse Jaldi Hi clear kar sakte hain. Uske bawjud bhi bachcha nahi theherta Hai Toh Phir Stri ka tapass karne chahiye. Yahi Sahi protocol Hoga aur couple ko isme bahut hi jaldi safalta prapt Hogi. Is topic par aap kuch aur Jana chahte hain toh aap mujhse Sampark kar sakte hain www.lybrate.com. Ye ek mobile mein app bhi hai aur platform par available hai ya phir website par aap visit Karke aap aur Jankari de sakte hai aur mujhse baat cheet kar sakte hai. Dhanyawad.read more
Doctor in Sexology In Harmony
Submit a review for Sexology In HarmonyYour feedback matters!
Patient Review Highlights
Dr Shirish C Malde is not just friendly, but also is very motivating. The Rosepetal Nurshing Home was equipped with various facilities. Thanks to him that the erectile dysfunction he gave me has given brilliant results. The erectile dysfunction was increasing day by day. One of my cousin's referred to Shirish C. Malde. In order to diagnose my problem completely he asked me a number of questions. I am glad thata I chose to consult him for my problem.
I was panicked, because I never thought I will suffer from hiv aids like this. One of my cousin's referred to Dr Shirish Malde. He is not just highly qualified, but has years of experience in handling high risk cases. The hiv aids treatment has helped me greatly and now I am perfectly fine. My problem was such that it required a number of sessions, and I must say after all the sessions, I am feeling much better now.
I was worried about my curved penis issue. I consulted many doctors but nothing came into use. Later I visited to Rosepetal Nurshing Home where I met Dr Shirish C Malde . He is a famous sexologist in Mumbai. He helped resolve my problem within short time. i really thank him for the suggestions he gave.
Dr. Shirish C. Malde provides answers that are very helpful, caring, professional, helped me improve my health and saved my life. I can't understand meaning of this... empty the semen which is accumulated in the body. ..???
I found the answers provided by the Dr. Shirish C. Malde to be very helpful, knowledgeable, well-reasoned, caring and inspiring. Super doctor
I found the answers provided by the Dr. Shirish C. Malde to be very helpful and knowledgeable. Sir can u brief in simple language ?
I found the answers provided by the Dr. Shirish C. Malde to be well-reasoned. It was a great help doctor. Thanks a lot
I found the answers provided by the Dr. Shirish C. Malde to be very helpful. Usfull for me thanks for your response
Dr. Shirish C. Malde provides answers that are very helpful. Thanks for your response..thanks for your help
Dr. Shirish C. Malde provides answers that are very helpful. Now i feel relax after talking with him
I found the answers provided by the Dr. Shirish C. Malde to be very helpful. Nice thank u so much..
Dr. Shirish C. Malde provides answers that are very helpful. ok .. I understand .. thank you
I found the answers provided by the Dr. Shirish C. Malde to be knowledgeable. Good App
Dr shirish ji is very polite and gentle, he is intelligent in his field
Dr. Shirish C. Malde provides answers that are very helpful. thanks
Amazing doctor , listen to all the problems and then advised
Very nice experience, friendly & very comfortable
Masturbation is rarely discussed, even amongst the closest of friends. Even though this is a normal part of human sexuality, society frowns on it and young people are often taught to avoid masturbation. Lack of knowledge and opportunities to talk about it have given rise to a number of myths on this subject.
Masturbation can damage the genitals
Touching your genitals is very unlikely to damage them. The sex organs are designed to withstand friction and hence are very tough organs. The maximum damage that can be caused by masturbation is a little chafing. Using lubricant can prevent this from occurring.
It causes health problems
Pleasuring yourself is the ultimate form of safe sex. There is no way for you to catch an STD or for it to cause any sort of mental health problem. The only risks involved are allergic reactions to lubricants or toys and a feeling of guilt or shame due to societal pressure.
It lowers the chances of you having an orgasm during sex
Masturbation does not reduce your sex drive or prevent you from having orgasms. Many people also claim that women get addicted to vibrators and cannot enjoy sex without them. However, there is no truth behind this.
Masturbation is akin to cheating
Single people as well as people in committed relationships masturbate. While it can lead to problems in a relationship depending on your partner's views about it, it does not amount to cheating on him or her.
It can cause blindness
Blindness is the most outrageous myth associated with self-induced orgasms. Till date, there has not been a medical case to prove it.
It causes infertility
Pleasuring yourself does not reduce your chances of getting pregnant or getting someone else pregnant. However, for men with a low sperm count, restricting ejaculations while trying to get their partner pregnant is a good idea. The only way masturbation can lead to infertility is if partners who share sex toys do not keep them clean and pass on STDs through them.
Only men masturbate
Men and women across the world masturbate.
Eating certain foods can help control the urge to masturbate
Pleasuring yourself is normal and not affected by what you eat or do not eat.
It is only for young people
Men and women of all ages can enjoy self-induced orgasms. This does not have any adverse effects on your health.
Popping pills is something we cannot do away with completely. But something that should be borne in mind that every drug is used for one of its particular property which is healing, but on the other hand, it also has, almost always, the not-so-nice effects. These side effects could sometimes be as simple as nausea or itching to something as serious as shooting up blood sugar levels.
Talking of side effects, do you know that Viagra was originally used for pulmonary hypertension and its side effect was improved performance in patients with erectile dysfunction (ED)? Viagra thus became the famous magical blue pill for patients with ED. On the other hand, there are quite a few drugs that can lower your libido levels.
Antihypertensives - Medications that are aimed at reducing blood pressure (diuretics and alpha and beta adrenergic blockers) have a negative effect on the sexual life. Switching drugs after medical consultation is an alternate.
Antidepressants - With depression on the rise, more and more people are prescribed anti-depressants, especially the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) and tricyclic antidepressants (TCAs). Both these increase the mood but lower the libido, in up to 50% of the patients. Added amount of cardio workout could be a work-around for patients on SSRIs. Reducing the dose of TCAs could help improve sexual function.
Proscar - Benign prostatic hypertrophy (BPH) is a common condition seen in aging men, and finasteride is used for its treatment. This prevents conversion of testosterone to its active form and thereby reduces sexual function. Surgical correction of BPH could be an alternative.
Antihistamines - Common cold cures like diphenhydramine and chlorpheniramine affect sexual life too. The good news is that these drugs are cleared out of the system within 24 hours and the side effect does not last long either. In patients who might need these chronically, this side effect should be borne in mind.
Anti-seizure drugs: Drug like terbetrol which is used to cure seizure does the same for the sexual act, which is physiologically akin to a seizure -impulse traveling slower along the nerve. If noticed, an alternative medication should be used.
Opioids - For severe chronic pain, Vicodin and OxyContin are used but these reduce testosterone levels and thereby reduce sexual drive too. Use of testosterone creams could be a substitute.
In all these cases, the key is to have a discussion with your doctor as soon as you realize it could be affecting your sex life.
STDs are nothing but those diseases that are usually invited by sexual intimacy or intercourse. Some of these diseases are even life threatening at times, and if you want to prevent them, then you have to adopt a few preventive measures.
- Using latex condoms: Latex condoms need to be used during sex every time, and these condoms are the safest of all condom varieties available in the market. Both pregnancy and STDs can be easily and efficiently prevented by means of these condoms, and this is the reason everybody is using the same. But you should have the knowledge of correct usage of these condoms.
- Keeping intimate areas clean: Do not ever forget to wash your genitals after or before making intercourse with your partner and this is needed for preventing sexual diseases. Sometimes, excessive lubrication during sexual intercourse brings infectious diseases, and thus your genitals get exposed to sexual diseases.
- Stop sharing items: Sharing under-garments or towels with your friends or close mates can be very much dangerous as you might develop STDs. Even if you have allowed somebody using these personal items of yours, you have to wash them carefully before using the same.
- Avoid multiple sex-partners: Both the sex partners should be loyal to each other and should not make sex with multiple partners as that will invite STDs. Having sex with more than one partner can be quite dangerous as a result of which your genital organs get infected and this infection later on turns into serious sexual diseases that cannot be easily treated.
- Avoiding unhealthy lifestyle: If you are exposed to excessive smoking, drugs and alcohol, then you might develop different kinds of STDs. Therefore, you are highly recommended to lead a completely healthy lifestyle so that a healthy sexual life can be enjoyed. You will never be able to have safe sex if you are so very addicted to alcohol, smoking and drugs.
- Have vaccination: Vaccination is now considered as one of the safest methods for preventing STDs. HPV vaccines are the popular, and the most recommended ones and thus teenagers can take them before getting sexually active. Hepatitis-B vaccinations are also required for getting increased protection against serious sexual diseases, especially AIDS and others. HIV testing is also very much essential in this regard, and you should not avoid the same.
I'm 36, I noticed long ago like 10~12 years from today that I have an abnormal discharge timing. Its like 1 hr plus with continue intercourse activity and full erection. Now I am noticing that time is almost same but erection is not as much as it was earlier. Note: since my wife does not carry on with me and get done earlier to be so I masturbate almost every time when I have sex. Please suggest what to do?
My wife has delivered a baby 30 days back. How much time, I should avoid sexual life. How many days gap should be given to start a physical relationship.
Paraphilia is a condition involving abnormal sexual desires or being aroused only by specific activities that deviate from the average interests. The arousal of people with paraphilia are bound by fantasizing about certain situations or activities that not necessarily 'normal'.
There are hundreds of recognized sexual paraphilia. A few of the most commonly known examples include:
Necrophilia: Involves being sexually aroused by corpses
Paedophilia: It is being aroused by prepubescent children
Narratophilia: Being aroused by obscene words.
Metrophilia: Being aroused by poetry
Masochism: Being aroused by suffering, being bound or beaten
Sadism: Arousal that comes with inflicting pain on others
Anthropophagolagnia: Involves raping and then eating the corpse of the victim
Coprophilia: Arousal involving faeces
Pictophilia: Arousal involving pornography or erotic pictures
Zoophilia: Involving animals
While some of these fantasies are harmless indulgences, some might be a serious threat to the person and the society. Anthropophagolagnia, for example, is one of the most dangerous examples of paraphilia. Ted Bundy, one of the most talked about cases in criminal psychology, was known to practice Anthropophagolagnia.
Some cases of paraphilia, when done with a consenting partner and indulged in discreetly, need not be especially a threat to others, for example, Metrophilia and Narratophilia. However, the likes of paedophilia, necrophilia and paraphilia involving rape fantasies are pathological in nature and can be considered abnormal and outright dangerous for the overall health and sanctity of the society.
Symptoms of paraphilia include the severe obsession with a particular fantasy or object to the point the individual is unable to attain sexual satisfaction without it.
The development of paraphilia, from a psychoanalytic perspective, is attributed to the arousal caused by a particular behaviour in childhood. From a behaviouristic perspective, sexual arousal may be attached to a particular object if both the instances have repeatedly occurred together around the concerned individual, thus conditioning them. An individual who is the victim or observer of inappropriate sexual acts may develop a paraphilia concerning that very act.
For treatment of sexual paraphilia, drugs that regulate testosterone levels and arousal levels have been used to reduce the sexual arousal while the therapy continues. Antidepressants have been used to reduce sex drive but they do little about the fantasies. Psychoanalytic approach and hypnosis have been used in therapy. In some cases, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (a therapy which focuses on conversations regarding how one’s thoughts and beliefs can affect his/her actions) and systematic desensitization (systematically and gradually letting go of such odd fantasies) have been used to cause a reduction in the conditioning of the fantasy and sexual arousal. Prolonged therapy and medications are used largely for the treatment of paraphilia. For the ones that are a threat to the society, quarantine (separating the extreme paraphilic cases from the rest of the society) is suggested in some countries.
Being able to pleasure your woman in bed can be a very rewarding experience. However, you must know that the key point in pleasing your partner is to bring variety. It is said that variety is the spice of life and it is certainly so in the bed room. To provide variety, you need to know certain points in her body which are erogenous in nature:
- Head: The skin on the human head is pleasurable to the touch and that is the reason head massages feel so good. If you stimulate the scalp correctly, feel good hormones called oxytocin and serotonins are released in the body. It also increases blood flow to your partner's brain and her entire body. So next time, don't just kiss and cuddle, but also stroke her head. The result will be phenomenal.
- Ears: Ears usually get less attention although there are many nerve endings present in them. This makes them an extremely erogenous spot. Your partner can be aroused by a light caress near the ear or even soft music while you are cuddling together.
- Lips: The lips are the most sexually exposed parts of the body. A huge number of nerve endings are present in the lips. Stimulating the lips also a feel good hormone which affect not only your partner's emotions but also her lady parts. This reason makes the act of kissing the lips extremely essential for couples.
- Neck: The neck is another very active erogenous zone within the female body and is sensitive to even the lightest touch. It is also an extremely sexy place to touch and kiss your partner. Even a gentle breath on the neck can arouse her. It is a great place to sexually stimulate her.
- Nipples: The nipples are extremely sensitive and erogenous in nature. If you are able to stimulate them properly, your partner will experience the same pleasure she will derive from the stimulation of her clitoris and her vagina. Some women can even orgasm from the stimulation of nipples.
Some of the other erogenous parts include the clitoris, the inner thighs, the lower back, and her feet. Just feel free to explore them in her body, and you will be able to give her the pleasure you wanted to. Also remember every woman is different and while certain things may be sexy for one person it may not be the same for another person and ensure that you communicate with her regarding what she likes and dislikes.
Imagine a three-course meal where intercourse is the dessert and foreplay is like the main course. Sure you can go straight to dessert, but it is all the more satiating when followed by a meal. The most common idea of foreplay is probably a lick on the ear and kisses trailing down your neck. But research suggests that sticking to one single routine can desensitize your parts and the effect just fizzles out.
Revive your ideas of great foreplay with the following tips:
- Aim for the area around the lips: People mostly focus on the plump part of the lips, ignoring a sensual, arousing sweet spot which borders the lips. Your lips and its periphery contain several blood vessels. Slowly brushing through that area will give you a tingling, almost ticklish sensation that will run through your spine.
- The little triangle: The entire neck region is a highly erogenous spot. This includes the ears and the spot behind it, the neck and the shoulders. However, the junction where the collarbone meets your neck, the little triangle, has a thinner skin enveloping it. Linger around the spot a little longer maybe, before running down to the more obvious erogenous regions.
- Trail the thighs: The area around your thighs is home to one of the most explosive nerves that can simply make your breath go into hyper drive. Start with supple, soft kisses around your thighs, with stray light strokes. This excites your genital area more because the nerves on the thighs directly lead to the genitals. This move will probably have your partner asking for more.
- Talk dirty: This act can have your partner flying off the handles if done right. You may want to test the temperature first in order to know what degree of talks does your partner like. Whether he is into low-key dirty talks or full-blown adjectives.
- Try the blindfold: That little accessory can really spice things up in the bedroom. It will drive your partner crazy expecting what is coming next. Try a tie or an eye mask if you don’t have a blindfold in handy.
Everyone has their favourites when it comes to physical intimacy. Be it missionary, cowgirl or doggy. Your ideal sex position is probably the position in which you climax the best, but psychologically speaking, the way you like it says quite a bit about your personality in bed. It plays more with your sub-conscious. Here is a list of common position and what it says about you:
- Missionary: How it is done? This is the classic when it comes to sex. We pretty much start it off with this. This position involves the woman on her back while the man is on top. What it says about him- Although this is a very intimate position, it may suggest that you are not very comfortable about your move. It can also mean that a man likes to keep control as it is he who controls the pace. What it says about her - It might mean that she enjoys intimacy and eye contact. Maybe she’s not too experimental and likes it simple.
- Woman on top: How it is done? The name in itself is quite self explanatory. This position can be done in a lot of ways, be it the regular cowgirl or reverse. What it says about him - A man who enjoys this position finds pleasure in pleasuring her woman. He feels okay about being submissive and having her woman enjoy. What it says about her - You like being in control of your own pleasure. It allows you to maintain the pace and depth of the activity.
- Spooning: How it is done? It qualifies as a super intimate position. In this you lie on your side and the man enters you from behind. This is practically a hybrid of sex and cuddling at the same time. What it says about him - A man who likes spooning is a passionate and sensual lover. This is also the best position for a lazy Sunday morning. What it says about her - In this position, the woman feels secure about her man. It is a relaxed position and can make you go on for a long time. This is probably a romantic’s favourite move.
- Doggystyle: How it is done? This position has a certain animalistic undertone to it. It involves a man entering the woman when she is on all fours. What it says about him - This is not exactly a very intimate position. It is far from it. This position probably suggests that you are unromantic and like your distance. What it says about her - This is probably every man’s favourite. If you like this position, it means you like being submissive. You like your man taking charge of your body and you trust him entirely.
Erectile dysfunction is referred to as the inability of getting or achieving an erection that is firm enough to help you have a sexual intercourse. It is also referred to as impotence. Occasional erectile dysfunction is quite common and one may experience it at times of stress though frequent ED can be a sign of a serious health issue that requires clinical evaluation. It can also be a sign of emotional or relationship problems that need to be addressed by an expert when you are not able to handle them.
In case of males, there are four different types of sexual dysfunctions, including erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, inhibited ejaculation and low sex drive. In case of women, vaginal dryness, lack of sexual drive and painful intercourse are regarded as sexual dysfunction.
Erection problems inevitably lead to considerable emotional as well as psychological reactions in most men, which are often described as a pattern of stress and anxiety. These further complicate the normal sexual function. In the case of aged men, sexual dysfunction is caused due to depression or other psychological complexes like widower syndrome. There are some physical causes behind sexual dysfunction, including stress, high blood sugar, high blood pressure, cardiovascular disease, high cholesterol levels and prostate cancer. Besides, certain respiratory and systemic ailments also contribute to sexual dysfunction.
A family doctor is a good thing to start with if you are experiencing problems in getting an erection or keeping it or you feel a reduced sexual drive. Other symptoms of sexual dysfunction in men include premature ejaculation or excessively delayed ejaculation or no ejaculation at all. In case of females, sexual hazards lead to a lack of sexual drive and vaginal dryness which in turn lead to pain while having intercourse.
Sexual dysfunction is a hazard only if it intervenes with your daily sexual activities. As female sexual problems incorporate various symptoms and causes, the treatment varies to a great extent. It is important to communicate the concerns with your partner and take the time out to understand the problem. You should refrain from smoking and consuming alcohol and be active physically. Even free hand exercise and Yoga help in relieving stress so that you can be able to enjoy your lovemaking to the fullest possible extent.
If simple lifestyle changes don’t seem to help your condition, you shall have to seek medical aid where the expert can adjust your medication, optimise the treatment for anxiety or depression or recommend oestrogen or androgen therapies as per requirements.