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Sexology in Harmony, Mumbai

Sexology in Harmony

Sexologist Clinic

3/16, Gokul Niwas, Building No. 3, Ranade Road, Mumbai Mumbai
1 Doctor · ₹1000 · 1 Reviews
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Our mission is to blend state-of-the-art medical technology & research with a dedication to patient welfare & healing to provide you with the best possible health care....more
Our mission is to blend state-of-the-art medical technology & research with a dedication to patient welfare & healing to provide you with the best possible health care.
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Sexology in Harmony is known for housing experienced Sexologists. Dr. Shirish C. Malde, a well-reputed Sexologist, practices in Mumbai. Visit this medical health centre for Sexologists recommended by 66 patients.

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Mon-Thu
10:00 AM - 03:00 PM
Sat
05:00 PM - 08:00 PM

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3/16, Gokul Niwas, Building No. 3, Ranade Road, Mumbai
Mumbai Mumbai, Maharashtra - 400028
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The causes, symptoms and Homeopathic treatment for Male Infertility
Male Infertility

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Dr. Shirish C. Malde

BHMS, MD
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22 Years experience
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Male Infertility

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The causes, symptoms and Homeopathic treatment for Male Infertility

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Hello, my wife feels very shy and embarrassed to have sex with me. We have been married since last 8 months. She feels shy and embarrassed to get naked or even undress in front of me. She feels shy when I touch her. I talk to her and make her understand that these things are normal but she is still the same. Whenever I try to kiss her or cuddle her she feels shy and pushes me. What could be wrong with her?

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Hello, my wife feels very shy and embarrassed to have sex with me. We have been married since last 8 months. She feel...
Feeling shy or having some fear about sexual intimacy is common for many girls. Try to pursue her by having good conversation. If she is willing, take her to a gynec or psychologist to reduce fear in her mind. Although you have been patient since last 8 months, be little more patient and wait for right moment.
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2 issues here. First is that I feel pee pressure when I am aroused. Also, when I rub the head of my penis, I feel pee pressure. Second issue, when I massage the penis head, my pelvic muscles contract and I can not control it. Then I feel like ejaculating if I keep massaging and it leads to PE.

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2 issues here. First is that I feel pee pressure when I am aroused. Also, when I rub the head of my penis, I feel pee...
2. Massaging penis head is leading to sexual arousal and excitement. If you continue doing it, it will certainly lead to climax and you will ejaculate. 1. This does not have any explanation.

My vagina became very loose after my 1st delivery ,my husband is no more interested in me please tell me some suggestions to make my pussy tight so that I can satisfy my hubby.

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You can practice the kegel's exercise to tighten the vagina. If this does not work, a minor surgery would be done to tighten the vaginal outlet.
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Hi. All respected docs. When I intercourse with my wife accidentally Broken my frenulum nerve. Now im experiencing no response in ma penis or erection is it curable? Or any other remedies? Please advice.

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Hi. All respected docs.
When I intercourse with my wife accidentally Broken my frenulum nerve.
Now im experiencing no...
You are experiencing erection due to fear of frenulum tear. Once if it healed, you continue your sex life without any worry. It will be normal.
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With how many females a male can have sex if he has sex with more than 5 females is their any chance of hiv How female gets hiv if she had sex with more than 2 people at a time can she get affected by hiv.

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With how many females a male can have sex if he has sex with more than 5 females is their any chance of hiv
How femal...
A person will get HIV only from other infected partner. If both the partners do not have HIV, they will not transmitt it to each other.
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I am newly marries last 3 day I had sex with wife without condom it could be chances to she get pregnant what we should do we do not want baby now pls ans me what she should be eat in home.

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I am newly marries last 3 day I had sex with wife without condom it could be chances to she get pregnant what we shou...
U should have planned your family planning methods before marriage. No food prevents conception Now, your wife can take iPill as emergency contraception. Later on she must take regular OC pills or you can use condoms. Do not take iPill as regular pill. Its harmful if taken frequently.
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I am planning to have circumcisions operation. Is that advisable? And how many days it will take to heal.

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I am planning to have circumcisions operation. Is that advisable? And how many days it will take to heal.
It takes totally 4-6 weeks to be normal after cicumcision. But, without valid reason, its not useful to have circumcision. It does not change your sex life.

Non Consummation of Marriage (Married, Yet Unmarried)

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A marriage can go stale due to several reasons. If you blindly believe in the maxim" marriages are made in heaven" you are still living inside a bubble. The gamut of difficulties faced in making a marriage work can leave newlyweds in complete awe. A marriage doesn't tiptoe on a tightrope between success and failure; it is more of a road taken towards happiness.

If your marriage doesn't fill you with contentment or you can sense the lack of bliss with your partner there are reasons to worry. Apart from the regular tiffs and grave contradictions, a married couple could also bicker or part ways due to the nonconsummation of their marriage. At times only one person has to experience the toll of little sexual intimacy while at other times, both individuals suffer from its absence.

A newly wed couple fails to have sex for 3 main reasons

1. Man's problem: erectile dysfunction (failure to get or maintain an erection) and very early ejaculation before vaginal insertion.

2. Woman's problem: either tight hymen or severe fear of pain & bleeding

3. Position difficulties: surprisingly, many couples find it difficult to take a proper position for sex as many do not have proper orientation of each other's body too.

Probable reasons behind nonconsummation of a marriage:

1. Extreme exhaustion: being very tired or exhausted can make you sexually inactive. One might be stressed due to work pressure. You or your partner could be tired of balancing professional and personal life. All these factors could lead to nonconsummation of marriage.

2. Real or apparent rejection: in many cases, only one person makes efforts to consummate the marriage. The partner may not directly decline your advances, but might not show much passion. This kind of passive response makes the other person feel rejected. You tend to avoid communication of such feelings and that complicates your situation. Along with the lack of intercourse, there arises a lack of love as well.

3. Any kind of substance abuse: addiction can deter you from performing in bed. Alcohol or drug abuse can reduce your sexual capabilities. There is also a range of medications leading to erectile dysfunction or vaginal dryness as a side effect. Having a physical inadequacy can make you recede from the idea of consummation.

4. Lack of emotional attachment: two people might have gotten married under societal or familial pressure. They may not feel love for each other or might not have anything in common to strike a chord of friendship. Lack of emotional attachment can prohibit the consummation of your marriage.

5. Sexual trauma: a person might have experienced instances of sexual abuse in childhood or at some point of time in life. Such instances scar them forever; the scars could be deep enough to come in the way of intercourse after marriage.
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PORN Is Not a Source for Sex Education

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With the advent of the internet and it's free nature, pornography has become one of the most viewed explicit contents of the internet. Though not made for adolescents, pornography is viewed by a large number of teenagers and young adults. Sex education is highly necessary for teens and young adults and pornography can never be substituted for sex education. Read more to find all about it.

  1. Pornography is an act: The porn industry like all other industries exists for profitability and actors who indulge in explicit sexual activities on screen are professionals and the scenes are entirely scripted. The purpose of sex education, which is to provide knowledge about a person's own sexuality is lost in porn. Similar to romantic movies, which are far off from reality, pornography is also a fantasy.
  2. Pornography is focused on the act itself: Sex education is not just learning about sexual activities or preferences, but also about learning reproductive sex, safe sex, reproductive health, birth control and also emotional relations and responsibilities. Pornography is graphic by its nature and does not provide any knowledge on these subjects, which are of utmost importance as comprehensive sex education is necessary for every single person.
  3. Pornography gives out the wrong message: The different positions or ways, which actors perform in pornography might be admirable, but it should be kept in mind that pornography has a purpose and it is not providing sex education to adolescents and young adults. When engaging in sexual activities with your partner, their level of comfort, their consent, and their preferences matter the most. So knowledge gained from pornography is in most cases faulty. Also keep in mind that there is a stark difference in what is shown in porn and what happens in real life.
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5 Tips to Get Her in Mood

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In today's hectic and stressful time, where both men and women have their own priorities physical intimacy has taken a back seat. Most men complain that women are sexually passive because they do not initiate sex more often and that makes them question their own sexual viability. In reality, women want sex as much as men do, but it takes a right man and right situations to get her in the mood for it. The sole reason for it is unlike men; women's sexual desire is unpredictable and depends on their level of intimacy with their men.

The following are some of the tips that can help you to set the tone to get her into the right mood:

  1. Get her out of her head: The most prominent factors that hinder women from enjoying sex to the fullest is stress and insecurities. The more capable you are to make her feel attractive and comfortable in her own skin, the more she will feel confident around you to open up both emotionally and sexually. Once her insecurities subside, you can get her in mood with ease.
  2. Give her genuine compliments: Women are good at differentiating genuine compliments from tasteless ones. Make sure that you compliment her genuinely on her inner beauty rather than her outer appearance. Most of the time women are skeptical of the things that men tell them. It is a defense mechanism of women to protect themselves against manipulative and emotionally unavailable men. The more you express your true feelings for her the more she will feel connected to you and will respond positively to your sexual approach.
  3. Prolong the foreplay: The longer you invest your time in foreplay, the easier it will be for you to get her in mood. Pay proper attention to her face, neck, shoulder and lips. Some erotic massage techniques may prove handy in the foreplay. Make sure you make ample of eye contact during the entire process.
  4. Be gentle in your caresses: Most women do not prefer rough actions prior to engaging in sexual activities. Women crave soft and sensual touches on their body. Caress your way to her erotic zones with slow and prolonged touches that make her crave for you more. Gentle touches will arouse her and get her in the mood.
  5. Pay attention to her like and dislikes: ask her about her sexual likes and dislikes, such intimate confessions are known to arouse her sexually. Use her likes to your advantage. You will be surprised how quickly she will get aroused with your considerate approach.
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Size does Matter to an Extent

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Human sexuality is a complex subject and most knowledge floating around in the world is often misguided by myths and wrong assumptions. One of the things, which worry men the most is their size of their penis, and information about this subject is often fraught with misinformation. Let's take a look at some of the facts that have been published in scientific medical journals within the medical community and come from legitimate sources.

The average penis size
Studies done around the world, irrespective of race has shown that the average size of the human penis is about 3 to 5 inches flaccid and 5 to 7 inches erect. There are deviations to this as well, but this is the norm in over 90 percent of the cases. Medically a penis is only considered small if it is less than three inches in size when erect. This is a condition known as a micropenis. Penises tend to fall into two categories as far as erect sizes:

I. Growers: The ones who have a flaccid smaller length but tend to grow much more proportionately and thus have a much larger size after erection.
II. Show-ers: These are men who have larger flaccid sizes but don't grow proportionately as much after achieving an erection.

Normal size
If you have an erect penis which is 5 to 7 inches long, then you have a normal penis as do most of other men. Most women have stated that they were happy with the partner's size, but what mattered to them more was how it was used. Also some women reported that the girth of the penis was more important as friction on the side walls of the vagina made them feel more pleasure.

The mechanics of sex
Although there are some women who may like the visual appeal of a bigger penis, most women can't really tell the difference between a 5 inch and a 7 inch penis when it is inside the vagina. The fascination with a bigger size is mostly cultural, social or hyped up by the media. Most women want a variety of sex acts to help them reach orgasm and very rarely reach orgasm only through penetrative sex. Size only matters to an extent if the penis is much below average, but in most cases what matters is the capability of the person to satisfy their partners through other means as well.
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Mujhe apne penis ka size badane k liye kya karna hoga meri age 21 hai or penis size 4 h.

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Mujhe apne penis ka size badane k liye kya karna  hoga meri age 21 hai or penis size 4 h.
NO need to increase the size of penis. what You have is sufficient. Remember, penis size can not be increased by any exercise, creams, medicines, injection etc
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Have you ever heard that one got pregnant from sex done with cloths on? Chance of pregnancy if while having sex with cloths on, guy ejaculated in his underwear?

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Have you ever heard that one got pregnant from sex done with cloths on? Chance of pregnancy if while having sex with ...
no chance of pregnancy if clothes on... if sperms have not entered vagina, pregnancy can not take place

Sex with cloths on. I was wearing jeans and underwear and girl is wearing underwear and trouser. We did it on 6th of july. On 8th of july she got her period. 1st day spotting, 2nd,3rd day-bleeding with some clots. 4 day also bleed. From 5 day bleeding stops gradually. Can she become pregnant? What is the sign of blood clots? Clots are common in pregnancy or in period?

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Once she got her menses means she is not pregnant. Cloths indicate heavy bleeding. Next time onwards be careful n use some barrier method.

I am 22 years male, I am having problem during sex with my partner that fore skin of my penis is not properly stretching, the penis head is coming out but the skin after head is not properly stretching, so I having a pain during entering to vagina, kindly let me know what is solution how can I overcome it.

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I am 22 years male, I am having problem during sex with my partner that fore skin of my penis is not properly stretch...
You may have mild tight foreskin known as" phimosis" you can do regular stretching of the foreskin to make it relaxed. You can use some lubrication during stretching and also during sexual intercourse too.
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