Hello doctor. M 20 year old. I am in a relationship with a guy from past 2 months. There's been times when things became worst and he left me for months. All because I don't like his habit of smoking marijuana and hashish. And his hanging out with roadside friends of his. He has reduced this habit a lot but still whenever he goes out and smokes. He again starts ignoring me. Nothing affects him then. He says you can go n leave me but again after that he comes to me. No matter what happens but he doesn't find anything better than his friends and drugs. I don't like this habit of his that he completely ignores me. I have tried talking to him. He promises things but again does the same. He doesn't find anything bad in that. It hurts a lot but m unable to make him understand. Pls help me.
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Cannabis (marijuana/hashish/ganja/charas/weed) consumption is associated with chronic amotivation syndrome and behavioral problems. It has been known to trigger psychotic episodes, as well as anxiety attacks. Your friend obviously has a problem and requires help. If he is willing, take him to a psychiatrist and get him treated for the same. It is unlikely that by merely saying he will change or stop the habit, it will happen so. He requires professional help. Also keep in mind that your first priority should be your own safety and well-being. If he is mistreating you in any way, be it physical, emotional or verbal abuse, you need to terminate this relationship at the earliest.
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Dear lybrate-user, do you think you can continue this relationship? You should think and take charge of your life. Your entire life depends on what you chose now! life is not like films. As a friend you can offer him a help and take him to a psychiatrist or even a physician for de-addiction. And you create a good career goal and try to work on that.
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