I am in love from Past 2 years. And I want to marry my boyfriend. But he is saying no. Plus I'm attached a Lot to him and can't stay a day without seeing him. These days my behavior has changed a Lot. I get stressed easily. I feel like no one is bothered about me. Whenever I fight with him, I feel like committing suicide. I have tried having pills. And have even tried cutting my hand with scissor. Have broken my specs in anger. And when I don't know how to remove my anger. I slap myself. On silly reasons I get annoyed. My anger last reached a high level which I'm not able to control. I stay awake late night crying. I'm not able to concentrate on my work as well. I even realize my mistakes when I'm wrong. But I spoil things in so bad manner that asking for apology makes no sense. I am not able to understand things. Am I into depression? And how do I control my anger. I really love him more than my life. Please help me.
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Getting angry is something which is unavoidable, what can be managed is the way you express it. Lately, as you mentioned your ways of expressing your anger were self harming, that is more often aggression directed towards your own self. You seem to have developed a wrong attitude of non acceptance. Demanding ness is an irrational belief which needs to be dealt with. Also the symptoms and severity of symptoms that you mentioned leaves no reasonable doubt that you have a mood disorder and personality issues. You definitely need to consult a good psychiatrist. You might need medications along with behaviour therapy sessions under a trained therapist.
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lybrate-user letting yourself suffer would only show your weakness for him, true love brings strength and vigor for life. You need to understand that a strong firm girl with a positive attitude and zeal for life is an attraction in itself. Make yourself busy with something positive, build a good career, and stop worrying about marriage since its going to put to in all boundations and you will miss this phase of your life. Also for improving you willness and overall wellness consult me for a good homoeopathic advice.
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Dear Lybrate user lybrate-user your behaviour mainly depends on your love life if your boyfriend will talk in a good way then everything will be fine otherwise you loses your self controlling power first talk to him and try to know the reason ,both of you were in relation so you should know the reason ,Ask onething with yourself that by hurting yourself will anything will change --no, So behave maturely and try to solve this matter, but by hurting yourself or doing anything wrong you are complicating the situation. Take help of any common friend .By doing all this thing if he says yes then it will be for some time this can't lasts longer ,you need to give space in your relation ,Don't call or message for sometime, then he will realise your importance and trust me when he will come after realising your importance then this relation will be much stronger.In the mean time do few things make some new friends and spend sometime with them, go for shopping or movie, make yourself busy as much as you can ,don't be alone ,do deep breathing exercise, develop some new hobby. Take help of any professional. If you need my help you can contact me. Take care.
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