Dear Doctor, I am a 29 year old male, I am very much emotional and introvert in nature, I am always worried of anything, Always scare to meet peoples and scare to be in group, I was in love with someone and she left me I am unable to cope up, sometime I think for revenge and some time I think that I will leave her too, she has returned saying that I will be just as friend and never be in a relation, and she is now in a relation with someone else this is told to me by a third person, I do not know what to do? I just want that to hell all the things and I want to be free from all sorrows and sadness, but unable to stop thinking about her, and I cry several time, I am helpless and hopeless and thinks to kill myself, 3 what should I do, Please tell me, please save me,

Dr. Sajeev KumarGeneral Physician32yrs exp

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Feeling to kill yourself is a sign of depression and you have to self control it or take antidepressants. If your girl has left you, you leave her and look for a good life and you can find someone ho suits you. 

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Ms. Hemal Sanjay KuntePsychologist5yrs exp

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Dear Lybrate User, Just because your GF left you, you do not become worthless. You are valuable. Please understand that there are many other people - like your family and friends who love you. By killing her or by killing yourself you will create more trouble for yourself and for your family and friends. It is very natural that you are feeling very sad and you keep crying. Please understand that crying is part of healing. You have lost one important relationship in your life and it will be painful to face this loss. Allow yourself to cry. Crying will relieve you of your sadness. It appears that something went wrong in your relationship. Try to understand what went wrong and be careful next time. If you are not comfortable, do not accept her proposal to be "just friends" now. If required, please consult a Counsellor. The Counsellor will help you to process your loss and will help you to move on and invest again in life. You are very young. Take charge of your life and take care. 

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