Hi Doctor, I am a boy of 22 years! Since childhood I was very coward and may be because of lack of outdoor activities I fell into homosexuality Trust me, I hate that stuff and want to come out from that under any circumstances. I am never into ass sex. Also I have stopped having sex in real. Thing with me is that I only gets attracted towards hot looking guys. How can I stop it? Also, my parents are looking forward for my marriage to a girl. I am very much worried about my & her life. I cannot share this with anyone around & so it falls me into depression day-by-day. I had been to a prostitute for testing my manhood, where I really failed. This made me feel very depressed. My dick just slept down when it was in her vagina without any ejaculation. Is there any medicine which can at least satisfy a girl and give her sexual pleasure? Any help/advise from you will be appreciated!

Ms. Hemal Sanjay KuntePsychologist5yrs exp

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Dear lybrate user, marriage is not just about satisfying your girl sexually. Sex is one essential part of married life, but there is much more in marriage beyond sex. Firstly, I think it would be very important for you to understand your own sexuality. If you are getting attracted towards guys then you might be a gay. To assess yourself for this, you need to consult a counsellor/sexologist, who will help you to understand your sexual inclination and the causes and consequences. Secondly, please understand that we all have our own sexual preferences. Being gay is not a crime, though in india, it is not accepted in the eyes of law. Instead of trying to change or denying your sexual preference, try to understand your real feelings and accept them. If you remain in denial, you wil be dissatisfied. If you marry any girl, without really understanding your sexual preferences, you will not be able to make her happy. Going to prostitues for trying your" manhood" can be very dangerous. Instead, take some professional help. The counsellor/sexologist will help you to understand your needs and will also help you to deal with your parental pressure. Please do not take decision to get married under parental pressure. Seek professional at the earliest. 

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