I'm a 19 years old medical student. . I met a guy in my college who was senior to me by 2 yrs. We became best friends. We enjoyed many moments together. He used to give me a lot of importance. We even became physically intimate for 4-5 times. It was okay for me as I thought he loves me , as I love him. Last week when I proposed him, he clearly rejected my proposal saying there is someone else in his life. From that day, he cut all the connection with me. Later he said he doesn't want to keep any connection with me. I'm in deep love with him .I didn't want to lose him ever. As I have already lost him, I can't accept this. I'm in severe mental depression. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't study .I'm feeling like crying all the time. I can't share the feeling with anyone. But my final exams are starting within 7 days. I don't know what to do. I can't concentrate in studies. Please help me out. you can prescribe any medicine if you think it may be helpful. Please help me out. I'll be highly obliged to you through out my life.
L L. B..,, M.Sc psychy,, N L P, P.G.D.G.C, M.S psychotherapy,, M.A child care, M A, clinical psy, M.A,social psychiatry,, M.Phil., psychology., Ph.D .,psychology
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Like this same problem one girl medico student comes to me. She is final year in medicine. In study time it happens. Love and sex is common in medical colleges. Take it easy. He wants to you for the purpose of sex. He enjoyed sex later leaved. Then you also take this like that. Do not think this matter again. Exams are crucial. Better to concentrate on studies. My patient recovered very soon and now she concentrated on studies like that you also recover very soon. Next time be careful about boys. Do not give any chance of sex. Make a very good friendly relations and do not go to sex. Ok what is happened is over. Now exams better to concentrate. If possible please share your personal feelings with your close friends. Do not be alone. Feel always comfortable. Be enjoy every movement of life. Do not think and do not waste time. All the best. My best wishes.
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