is mustrabation bad to sex life?

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If you are a teenager, you might want to know, is masturbation bad? is there anything wrong with it? am I the only one doing it? what kind of bad effects it can cause if it can cause any? can it create problems in my future life, esp marriage? doctors will argue no matter how much you do it, masturbation is not harmful at all. Some doctors say if you are addicted to it obsessively it can be a problem but even then they say the bad affects are only psychological and not physical. Psychological effects basically mean you shun yourself from society, indulge with yourself all the time and lead an unproductive life which can be a problem in the society. My experience with excessive masturbation however is, it can be really harmful. And I mean in physical way. While this is somewhat controversial, controversial in the sense that I first came to know about this from street pamphlets, but my own experience actually affirms that the bad effects are true. I still have an open mind to it however. If someone can convince me these are not bad affects because of masturbation, I am willing to accept it happily. Harmful effects of masturbation include penis becomes thin at base I experienced this first hand. How can I believe it was just the pamphlet that caused me to believe my penis had shrunk at the base. I can see it every day and have proof of it. The shrinkage get severe if I masturbated and begin to disappear if you do not masturbate. Penis starts to leak semen when you think about a girl, the tip of your penis gets wet. In mild cases it it is just the tip that gets wet, as it become severe the secretion will actually make more area wet. Did you have any of these bad affects? you are welcomed to comment below. Premature ejaculation this happens because of over masturbation. What happens is you teach your organ to ejaculate even when there isn? t a strong enough stimulus. Gradually your body learns how to ejaculate to achieve orgasm with less stimulus. Eventually when you are in a real encounter where the stimulus is really strong, your body ejaculates just because of thoughts or mild touches just because it learned to ejaculate at a lesser stimulus level. It never reaches it peak in order to cum. In other words there will be this lack of satisfaction. You will not achieve the same amount of pleasure from sex as a normal man would. This can seriously affect your qualify of life. Pain in legs while I do not know the exact science of it but you develop pain in legs that in calf area. You will never see this pain if you do not do any hard activity, but if you stress yourself in a game for example or jogging etc, you will see this pain. I have confirmed this is related to masturbation. If you stop it, then pain goes away. Pain in lower back again this is not obvious to feel. Let say your stress you back a little and you will feel it (do not ever do that in purpose). An example would if you play squash (or racket) which uses your back extensively, you will feel this pain. I had to quit squash because of this pain and I knew it why it was. Pain in groin area this happens if you indulge yourself in a long masturbation activity. What happens is you start masturbation, then when you are near the edge, you stop it, then continue it again. If you do it for long time, you will have an obvious pain in the groin. At that time it would feel so strong that you would want to stand up. Loss in memory I have come across this first hand as well. Loss of memory does not occur because of masturbation. I believe masturbation help boost the memory. Loss of memory occurs because of excessive thinking about unhealthy thing such as sex all the time and being obsessed with it. A point comes that your memory does not help you at all. You are not sure if you locked the door, you forget people name right in front of them, you forget where you parked your car. Below are psychological effects which are common with any addiction not necessarily just masturbation. Isolation from society one of the reason you masturbate is because you do not need company, you just live with masturbation. It never lets you be bored. It is always available and if it is why not just use it rather than seek a company? masturbation a lot makes you isolated. It is not that serious because you will have regular interaction with people. However at times if you are obsessed with masturbation, you will realize you do not have any friend, you do not have any girl friend, you do not see any body, you are living in your own world.memory Loss

Rahman · Accepted Answer

If you are a teenager, you might want to know, is masturbation bad? is there anything wrong with it? am I the only one doing it? what kind of bad effects it can cause if it can cause any? can it create problems in my future life, esp marriage? doctors will argue no matter how much you do it, masturbation is not harmful at all. Some doctors say if you are addicted to it obsessively it can be a problem but even then they say the bad affects are only psychological and not physical. Psychological effects basically mean you shun yourself from society, indulge with yourself all the time and lead an unproductive life which can be a problem in the society. My experience with excessive masturbation however is, it can be really harmful. And I mean in physical way. While this is somewhat controversial, controversial in the sense that I first came to know about this from street pamphlets, but my own experience actually affirms that the bad effects are true. I still have an open mind to it however. If someone can convince me these are not bad affects because of masturbation, I am willing to accept it happily. Harmful effects of masturbation include penis becomes thin at base I experienced this first hand. How can I believe it was just the pamphlet that caused me to believe my penis had shrunk at the base. I can see it every day and have proof of it. The shrinkage get severe if I masturbated and begin to disappear if you do not masturbate. Penis starts to leak semen when you think about a girl, the tip of your penis gets wet. In mild cases it it is just the tip that gets wet, as it become severe the secretion will actually make more area wet. Did you have any of these bad affects? you are welcomed to comment below. Premature ejaculation this happens because of over masturbation. What happens is you teach your organ to ejaculate even when there isn? t a strong enough stimulus. Gradually your body learns how to ejaculate to achieve orgasm with less stimulus. Eventually when you are in a real encounter where the stimulus is really strong, your body ejaculates just because of thoughts or mild touches just because it learned to ejaculate at a lesser stimulus level. It never reaches it peak in order to cum. In other words there will be this lack of satisfaction. You will not achieve the same amount of pleasure from sex as a normal man would. This can seriously affect your qualify of life. Pain in legs while I do not know the exact science of it but you develop pain in legs that in calf area. You will never see this pain if you do not do any hard activity, but if you stress yourself in a game for example or jogging etc, you will see this pain. I have confirmed this is related to masturbation. If you stop it, then pain goes away. Pain in lower back again this is not obvious to feel. Let say your stress you back a little and you will feel it (do not ever do that in purpose). An example would if you play squash (or racket) which uses your back extensively, you will feel this pain. I had to quit squash because of this pain and I knew it why it was. Pain in groin area this happens if you indulge yourself in a long masturbation activity. What happens is you start masturbation, then when you are near the edge, you stop it, then continue it again. If you do it for long time, you will have an obvious pain in the groin. At that time it would feel so strong that you would want to stand up. Loss in memory I have come across this first hand as well. Loss of memory does not occur because of masturbation. I believe masturbation help boost the memory. Loss of memory occurs because of excessive thinking about unhealthy thing such as sex all the time and being obsessed with it. A point comes that your memory does not help you at all. You are not sure if you locked the door, you forget people name right in front of them, you forget where you parked your car. Below are psychological effects which are common with any addiction not necessarily just masturbation. Isolation from society one of the reason you masturbate is because you do not need company, you just live with masturbation. It never lets you be bored. It is always available and if it is why not just use it rather than seek a company? masturbation a lot makes you isolated. It is not that serious because you will have regular interaction with people. However at times if you are obsessed with masturbation, you will realize you do not have any friend, you do not have any girl friend, you do not see any body, you are living in your own world.memory Loss

Rajesh Choda · Answer

The excess masturbation leads to dhatukshay and ojokshay i. E. Deterioration of seven elements (pratilom kshay), nervous system, urinary system, other body systems affected the most and weakness caused further causes body become home of other diseases such as sunken eyes, black rim round the eyes. Continuous headache and backache. Dizziness, loss of memory. Palpitation of heart. Nervousness. Unable to perform any heavy physical or mental work. The person dislikes any company. All the senses are impaired. Vision becomes dim. Yakshma (t. B.) or insanity due to ojokshay. Frequency of masturbation allowed in a healthy person: masturbation gives self pleasure. This misleads to indiscriminate frequency of this practice by bachelors and married both. Generalised concept is to drink 3-4 glasses of milk daily to regulate production of shukra - the semen. But what for lactose intolerance sufferers. He would have to cut down his intake of milk products. So, let your body decide the frequency of masturbation for yourself. While keeping the frequency to minimum, sufferings may not take place. It is a personal choice. Observe effects yourself and decide to enjoy masturbation if you cannot practice celibacy.

Rushali Angchekar · Answer

Masturbation twice per week is healthy excess leads to side effects. some of the after- effects of masturbation are: a. The nervous system is affected the most. b. Besides the heart, the digestive system, the urinary system as well as the other systems are adversely affected and consequently the whole body becomes the museum of diseases with profound weakness. c. The eyes become sunken, the cheek bones protrude and there is a black rim round the eyes. d. Continuous headache and backache. e. Dizziness and loss of memory. f. Palpitation of heart on lightest exertion. g. Nervousness. h. Unable to perform any heavy physical or mental work. i. The person dislikes any company and activities and rather likes to sit in seclusion and suffers from weakness. j. All the senses are impaired. k. Vision becomes dim, the tongue begins to stammer and ears tend to become deaf etc. l. Lastly t. B. Or insanity or some other serious disease catch hold of the victim to lead his life to a close. m. Impotency/ erectile dysfunction / premature ejaculation, reduced penis size, hardness etc therefore, young men are advised to consult a qualified and honest homoeopathic practitioner for his expert advice and effective treatment instead of wasting his money with quacks. Further, those young men who are or have been engaged in the regular habits of masturbation should not ignore the necessity to consult the qualified homoeopaths to avoid sexual embarrassment at the time of marriage. homoeopathic treatment for taking away the habit of masturbation and removing its bad effects.

Aruna Sud · Answer

Masturbation is harmless and definitely not the reason for your weakness quite many boys are thin and lean at this age still you improve on your diet like add more proteins I your daily meals and exercise daily regularly you should also play some outdoor games if you do these exhaustive activities then you get more hungry eat well and sleep better that is the way to gain weight.

Dinesh Kumar Jagpal · Answer

Daily and excessive masturbation is bad for future married life.

Princy Khandelwal · Answer

Hello, excess of masturbation is harmful for you and it causes erectile dysfunction so consequences are bad for your sex life. Take care.