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I'm currently facing abnormal sex drive due to testosterone imbalance and also mental disorder.

Dr. Sathish Erra 89% (14758 ratings)
BHMS, Diploma in Dermatology
Sexologist, Hyderabad
I'm currently facing abnormal sex drive due to testosterone imbalance and also mental disorder.
Causes of Excessive Sexual Drive. As mentioned, an increased sex drive may be caused by a physical factor like a hormonal imbalance. Problems with other compulsive disorders may be another cause of excessive sexual drive.
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HI, Mene 23 nov ko gf ke saath sex kiya tha. blood aaya tha normal sex kiya tha. first dono ke hi uske prieod 7 nov ko aaye te phle to abi tak preiod start nhi hue h 14 dec ho gya h. please sir help me.

Dr. Sathish Erra 89% (14758 ratings)
BHMS, Diploma in Dermatology
Sexologist, Hyderabad
HI, Mene 23 nov ko gf ke saath sex kiya tha. blood aaya tha normal sex kiya tha. first dono ke hi uske prieod 7 nov k...
The menstrual cycle, which is counted from the first day of one period to the first day of the next, isn't the same for every woman. Menstrual flow might occur every 21 to 35 days and last two to seven days. For the first few years after menstruation begins, long cycles are common.
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HI, What is the possibility of pregnancy while use condom? If yes then describe the conditions.

Dr. Ramakrishna Chanduri 91% (996 ratings)
BHMS
Homeopath, Hyderabad
Condoms aren't foolproof, and if she did get pregnant, it would be more likely down to user error rather than the condom failing. Or, you touching your penis with your hand and then touching her. Make sure you pinch the air out of the tip to make a reservoir for semen, as you roll it down the penis. Wear condoms that fit you, be that regular, larger, extra large or trim. It's better to buy the correct size for your penis than to have it come off. Use a suitable water based lubricant to reduce friction and the possibility of tearing. Periodically check the condom is in place during sex and especially between position switches. Change the condom after any ejaculation or switch of sexual activity such as oral, anal or vaginal. During my hundreds or more sessions of sex with clients, I never had a single condom come off or split during sex. Used correctly, they are very reliable and you should have no problems.
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I had sex for first time of course it was not successful but there was blood outside on my vaginal layer and now it become wound from that side.

Dr. Sathish Erra 89% (14758 ratings)
BHMS, Diploma in Dermatology
Sexologist, Hyderabad
I had sex for first time of course it was not successful but there was blood outside on my vaginal layer and now it b...
Which may cause a rash in the moist skin folds of the vaginal area Wear a pad for the first several days to help draw any blood away from the cut and keep the area clean.
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Reasons For Lack Of Sexual Interest In Females!

Dr. Pranay Gandhi 92% (1164 ratings)
MBBS, MD - Social & Preventive Medicine / Community Medicine, Fellowship of European Union of Sexual Medicine, Fellowship In Diabetes
Sexologist, Chandrapur
Reasons For Lack Of Sexual Interest In Females!

In our study of the females of urban area, the following were the comments made by them when asked as to why they felt lack of sexual interest for their partners:

 Deteriorated sexual self-esteem

Women expressed lower feeling of attractiveness and change in the body image. Such feelings overshadowed their sexual self-steam. “…I’m not happy with my body. I have sagging breasts and flabby stomach bulging out after child birth which made me very ugly ... I don’t feel attractive at all (24 y/o, teacher).

Some participants had experienced being reproached by their spouse and believed that this behavior had reduced their self-confidence. “…He permanently finds faults in my body. He blames my loose vagina, my passivity in sex and…; my self-confidence in sex has been reduced” (44y/o, teacher).

The spouse’s infidelity was also expressed by some women. “I have noticed his relationships for some years. He has not approached me for several months” (45 y/o, govt officer).

Deteriorated feminine position

Sexual desirability was mentioned by some participants. “When I was sexually active, I had more energy and motivation. I felt merriment and lively but I don’t, now.” (36 y/o, PhD).

Feeling as an incompetent woman was very challenging for the women who took part in this research.“Meeting the sexual need of the spouse is the duty of his wife. He wants me to be like other eager women, but I have no interest in sex. I do not act in a feminine manner” (42 y/o, Master of Science).

Being rejected by the spouse was also stated by some women. “He says that he doesn’t want me anymore. When I remember his words, I go mad. I have even cried during intercourse several times” (33 y/o, diploma).

Struggle in sexual issues

Concern about losing the relationship and spouse

Accepting sex to maintain the spouse was mentioned by women. “He also needs sex. Either I have to accept it or he may have desire for other women” (40 y/o, bachelor).

Many of housewife women talked about financial support: “When I need money, I accept the relationship, even an anal intercourse” (30 y/o, diploma).

Concern about continued sexual reluctance was worrying in some women. “If my lack of desire continues, I may see his sexual frigidity and our intimate relationship will collapse… I will get miserable” (24y/o, diploma).

Surrendering to sexual relationship

Half of the women expressed their pretension to be interested in sex and their role playing: “I pretend I am interested in sex, but he knows that I’m not behaving like the past”. I role-play in sex to satisfy my husband’s sexual needs.” (24 y/o, diploma).

Deterioration of the couple’s relationship

Deteriorated marital interactions

Less emotional interactions with the spouse was stated by some women. “I’ve been avoiding him and I don’t get intimate with him” (39 y/o, associate degree).

Women believed that change in the spouse’s behavior reduced his attractiveness. “… If my husband demands sex and I refuse it, he will get grumpy and will find an excuse to begin an argument” (31 y/o, associate degree).

Reduced affection expressed by the spouse was also mentioned “...he doesn’t care about me anymore. If I go to my mom’s house from morning to evening, he even doesn’t call to see how I am doing”. (30y/o, diploma).

Sexual disharmony between the couple

Lack of sexual talk with the spouse was observed among the majority of participations.

“I haven’t talked about my problem with him. We do not talk about sexual issues together” (30 y/o, diploma).

Sexual avoidance of the woman was stated by participants. “When my husband demands sex, I say I’m busy or sleepy…” (24 y/o, diploma).

More than half of women referred to sexual coercion by their spouses. “Sometimes, I have to accept sex. It is very difficult to tolerate it. I feel offended and choked with anger” (31 y/o, bachelor).

Anal and oral sex were considered as annoying or unusual sexual demands by the spouse “anal sex according to Islam, it should be avoided ... I also don’t like oral sex. I feel women are insulted to do so. I feel sick when I talk about it” (22 y/o, diploma).

Clitoral Stimulation Vs Vaginal Stimulation For Female Orgasms!

Dr. Pranay Gandhi 92% (1164 ratings)
MBBS, MD - Social & Preventive Medicine / Community Medicine, Fellowship of European Union of Sexual Medicine, Fellowship In Diabetes
Sexologist, Chandrapur
Clitoral Stimulation Vs Vaginal Stimulation For Female Orgasms!

Most women report that clitoral stimulation is an integral aspect of their orgasm experience. we conducted a study on Eighty-eight women 18 to 53 years old who answered detailed questions about their usual and recent orgasm experiences, sexual history, depression, and anxiety. Then, they viewed a series of sexual films.Most women (64%) reported that clitoral and vaginal stimulation contributed to their usual method of reaching orgasm.  Women who reported primarily stimulating their clitoris to reach orgasm reported higher trait sexual drive and higher sexual arousal to visual sexual stimulation and were better able to increase their sexual arousal to visual sexual stimulation when instructed than women who reported orgasms primarily from vaginal sources. Thus, watching porn or sex video call will help a woman get orgasm more by clitoral stimulation than vaginal insertion.

How To Improve Your Sex Life?

Gautam Clinic Pvt Ltd 90% (7827 ratings)
Sexologist Clinic
Sexologist, Faridabad
How To Improve Your Sex Life?

Sex is more than a physical release, it is a way to intimately connect with another human. But sometimes distractions can interfere with your ability to connect with your partner. Maybe it's work, school, or kids that dominate your time. Whatever your distraction is, sex is often the thing that gets kicked to the curb in your relationship. You don't have to let life get in the way of having the sex that you want to have, though. Keeping your sex life fresh and exciting is easy if you communicate and make an effort as partners to spice things up and have fun with each other in the bedroom (and elsewhere).

Explore your own body. To feel comfortable and intimate with a partner, feel comfortable and intimate with yourself. This includes being connected to your body and your feelings. Feel free to experience and express the way you feel. Learn how you like to be touched, what turns you on, and how your body reacts to different stimulus. You can explore your body with your partner, too.

  • Using a vibrator can help a woman explore her own sexual responses, and can show her partner what she enjoys.

Relax before sex. Use some relaxation techniques before becoming intimate with your partner. This will help take the focus off of performance. Strive to enjoy every moment of the experience. Take some deep breaths and consciously relax tight muscles.

  • Relax with your partner. Take deep breaths together and enter into a relaxed physical and emotional space.
  • If you struggle with performance anxiety, check out How to Deal with Sexual Performance Anxiety.

Concentrate on foreplay. Sometimes sex can start to feel scripted, like you're moving quickly from A to B to C. Slow down and focus on sensuality before diving into sex. Foreplay is about exciting both partners equally.

  • Trade massages before you have sex, and spend a particular length of time exploring each other's bodies before you're allowed to move on. Make the touching part of sex as long and luxurious as possible. Put on soft music and make an evening of it. Take your time.
  • Focus on pleasuring your partner and giving excitement. Then, revel in pleasure when it’s returned to you.
  • Many women benefit most from clitoral stimulation during foreplay.

Take your time. Don’t approach sex as something to do and then get done. Slow down and enjoy every aspect of sex. Experience the pleasure of being touched, and return the touch to your partner. Enjoy touching and being touched. Engage in non-sexual touching before moving onto sexual touch. Enjoy the feeling of your partner’s body and take it slow.

  • Practice sensate focus. This exercise helps build trust and intimacy over a gradual period of time (20–40 minutes), and helps relieve performance anxiety. Taking turns, engage in increasing touch with your partner. First start with non-sexual touch to your partner, touching the torso, arms, legs. Then include increasing sexual touch, around the breasts/nipples and groin area, but not touching genitals. Finally, engage in more sexual touch, including genital touch or light stimulation. You can choose to engage in sex afterward.

Be spontaneous. One of the most common ways a sex life can become mundane is that it becomes a routine. Maybe you only ever have sex in the mornings, or on particular days when you get a break from work, school, or kids. Spice things up by having sex at unexpected times, in unexpected ways, or in unexpected places. Further, don’t be afraid to masturbate; masturbation can be a healthy part of a relationship.

Explore your kinky side. If introducing toys and costumes into the bedroom seems exciting and fun for both of you, go for it. Be as kinky as you want to be. As long as your relationship puts honesty and communication first, there's no wrong way to have sex.

  • Add to the fantasy with role-playing. You both could dress up in costumes and call each other by different names.
  • Blindfolds are easy ways to make sex suddenly touch-focused and different. If you're into it, go the sensory-deprivation route.
  • Some couples in long term relationships like to relive the early stages of their dating, when they couldn't get enough of one another. Plan to meet separately at a bar you used to frequent and pretend like you don't know each other. Go through all the motions of the first blind date, and pretend you don't know anything about the other's sexual likes. Go from there.

 

 

I have had sex with my fiance on monday, we did not use condom and I did not cum inside of her. Should I be worried about her pregnancy? Please suggest me.

Dr. Sathish Erra 89% (14758 ratings)
BHMS, Diploma in Dermatology
Sexologist, Hyderabad
I have had sex with my fiance on monday, we did not use condom and I did not cum inside of her. Should I be worried a...
Without having sexual intercourse if, for example: sperm get into your vagina – for example, if you or your partner have semen or pre-ejaculate on your fingers and touch your vagina. Your partner ejaculates near your vagina.
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