Hi, I am 28 years old married women. I have my neighbors son who is a teenager. And he calls me didi. But yesterday all of a sudden he came to me and directly asked that "Didi can I masturbate" I was very shocked listening that word from him. I asked him to repeat what he said. Then he told me that his friend circle is influencing too much which is making him to watch porn movies. and to masturbate as well. But I refused him to use my toilet to use for all this shit things. and I also advised him that to leave such kind of friend circle and I can understand your feelings at this age it's very common. But you should first concentrate on your studies not on all this porn and masturbation. But I am worried that does he had any such sex thoughts on me which made him to come and ask me so daily. please advise how to handle him. Actually I am a working women so I don't interact with anybody. But still that guy came and spoke to me like that. Is this triggering me something. Or should I just ignore and move on.
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Yes your gut feeling is right. He is a teenager and may be testing you daily, for masturbations why he needs your toilet. If you r not interested then just keep a distance, and avoid any close contact or touch which he may have missunderstood. Hopefully your marital/sexual life is going great, if not then connect an expert in relationship and sexuality but keep away from this and since he is neighbor's son. Talk to him preferably when someone is around.
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Hello, yes, you done years duty properly. Not to allow this guy to your home n cut relationship. If need then talk with his parent n you husband tech-fully and ignore.
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You would have already passed on the message to the chap. If he did not get it. Ignore him and he will. At this age most of the boys have common sexual fantasies about almost everyone! the only concern is that he is bold enough to express it! in case he repeats it, you may discuss it with his mother. Or else do not give him attention!
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