I've been in a relationship for 4 years now. I'm insecure. I wonder if he will leave me. So, I keep testing him and trying to call him. But most of the time he ignores my messages and calls and calls me when he is free. He tells me that he needs some time for himself and that I'm too clingy. I try to divert my mind and do other things instead of constantly testing him. But whenever any joy or sorrow happens I immediately tell him via texts. He does not respond and I feel bad. But still, I keep testing him. And feel bad when he does not do the same. How do I stop this annoying behaviour and have a peaceful relationship with him?