Sir I am 28 year old. I had no sexual power since my birth. Because I understood this as a wrong. I hate sexuality from my birth. My friend suggest me to. Watch porn videos, or porn message. I don't try to. Do this. But they all leave me. Then I now started watching and reading this. After 2 years sexuality increased too. Much as my sexuality increase my mind concentrate towards porn videos and message. And I can't stopping my self from doing this. I try to not to do so, then I feels like a current in my mind and tip of the penis, And then I needed to watch this. Please sir I want to concentrate my mind to the study not to this. Those who suggest me, they all have a job. But I have no job at the moment and now they are not asking me for a with. I feels shameless and I hate myself for my deeds. Is there any medicine to get control all over these.

Dr. Tanmay PalsuleHomeopath11yrs exp

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