Hi Dr. My problem is dat I've a bf he said his mother abt me we both r muslim & qureshi (kasai) but he belongs to bakar kasai (of goats) & we r bade k kasai (of cows) his mom said dat is she belongs to bakar kasai den yes other wise forget him. We both really love each other more dan 4 years we r in a relationship. What to do how to make his mom convinced abt us. She should be happy dat m also qureshi but y she is bringing all dis caste system in dis centre whats the matter please help please advice something or tips.

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Dr. J ChadhaPsychologist32yrs exp

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I STRONGLY SUGGEST THAT STOP FOCUSING ON YOUR WOULD BE MOTHER-IN LAW. IF YOU ARE ABLE TO MAKE A GOOD CAREER FOR YOURSELF, DEFINITELY, ALL OTHER THINGS, INCLUDING CASTE, BECOME SMALL. BUT, FOR THAT, YOU NEED TO MAKE YOUR BF UNDERSTAND THAT HE TOO SHOULD HELP YOU GO AHEAD WITH YOUR STUDIES AND GOOD CAREER SO THAT WHEN YOU BECOME A SUCCESS, NOBODY CAN SAY NO TO YOU! SO, FOCUS ON MAKING A GOOD STANDING FOR YOURSELF AND I GUARANTEE, ALL ELSE WILL FOLLOW YOU.

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