Hi im 21 years old boy im medical student 1s year im in relationship since 14 months my girlfriend age is just 18 and she is in class 11 her behaviour and nature kills me inside and outside coz she do not respect me and my words she value more facebook friends then me she stand for them who flirts with her in facebook whatsapp when I scold their friends she changed her password of fb and trash me by words all friends of her is distance which she feels they are real in nature but actually not all the time they flirt with my girlfriend (She ia my long distance relation with her [Long distance relationship]) when I told do not to this stuffs which I do not like but she repeats the mistake again and again she had share her number to unknown people of facebook which she do not knew at all very properly she let me down live in front of their friends distance and she has cheated on me and saying a one gut I love you many times but me never done this ever with any girl when I ask to whom you are talking in whatsapp she replies me only you but the thing is she talk to every guys and lie me all the time her x ask for pics and she give also some were expensive to who ever ask she gives the pics I do not know what for is any kind of attention she also flirts sometimes which make me feel low all the time depression coz im not cheating on her and I always console her all the time do rights things in life many people will come to your life and take advantage of your physically needs and full fill their desire what should I do please help me im tired of her nature rudeness upon me when I teach her all the time no attention on me she says you know I do not show much love I do not like why she said like this say me please doctor help my mind is numb now I can not focus on anything is she immature? Or playing game upon me? Help me.
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Dear Thanks for this query. I can understand your concern regarding your relationship with your girlfriend. First of all she is just 18 years old girl, she is not mature enough. Expectations are the reason of your problem. Communicate with her, that these things are bothering to you. Keep in mind, give her space, she is having all the rights, likes dislikes, to whom she wants to talk she can. You can't force her to live according to you. So better to give her some space, give some more time to your relationship. If you will react more, she will feel suffocating and will get irritated. Only thing you can do, keep yourself busy in your studies, give her some space, don't spy on her, give more time to your relationship, you both are young spend some more time, if still it doesn't work then go for breakup. Hope my answer helped you. Regards.
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