I'm feeling very depressed because of the people's behavior around me. They are ignoring me and not concentrating to what I'm saying. Basically everyone will enjoy my partnership at the starting of the relationship/friendship but later on they are not giving value to me just because of my strict behavior.

Dr. Amit NagarkarPsychiatrist13yrs exp

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You seem to be demanding appreciation of your efforts you put in your relationships. It is not logical to expect the same affection and belongingness from everyone you make a friendship with. Refusal or ignorance from friends whom you adore makes you feel sad and depressed not because they do so but because you and everyone like tends to have irrational beliefs that only their approval and attention would make you feel content and happy. If you have been feeling sad and depressed for more than 2 weeks persistently you should visit a psychiatrist and counsellor for treatment. For further online assistance you may contact me. 

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Dr. Rekha SinghPsychologist15yrs exp

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Change your perception. Think from both the angles i.e. Your perspective and friends perspective. May be they are not ignoring you but your own prejudgement about someone is bringing change in your behaviour and leads to change in others behaviour too. Work on yourself. 

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