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I am (girl- age 28) did MBA worked in IT company, married to Mr. Venkat (age - 39 or 40) Mtech just 9 months back (Nov 27 2015, residing in hyderabad. My husband (Venkat) is suffering from Psychosis since 2 years but I came to know after marriage as I was not aware of it. He uses "Arpit 10 mg" and "dyskinil" even now. I just wanted to know his health condition. He left office 2 years back and rejoined office after confirmation from his physician that he is normal. But I don't feel he is normal because he screams at night sometimes in a different voice pointing out his finger in some other direction. There is misunderstanding between us, he is always suspicious, negativeness,anxiety, mismatch words while talking, stubbornness, very childish (acting wanted to show others that he is innocent but not really he is ), not involved with family members, not thinking about family life, uncleanliness, chain smoker, untruthfulness,fear not bothered about anything like health etc, and looses his temper frequently which is really affecting our married life. Sir, these are not my intention but it's happening lively. I would like to know Is this abnormal behaviour or inborn from childhood ? There is lot of disturbance, upset in our sexual relationship as he could not fulfils his desire as he takes out his anger in another manner. Because of above reason I took him to urologist (from Apollo hospital) suggested tablets - " Tazzle 10 Mg "and "Nano leo" After using above medication I got conceived now I'm 5th month pregnant, he stopped using "tazzle and nano leo" for one month in my absence. After I came back from my mother's house finished my 3rd month pregnant he ordered " L- Arginine " without doctor consultation used for two days for testing purpose, it was ok for a while later no result. He seems to be normal but his behaviour differs sometimes, infact he has mental pressure from his family members as he is taking care of them financially (no job for his younger brothers, his sister got married who has 4 years kid but divorced) and his old parents. I am desperately looking for a solution, I'm afraid will my married life continues normally ? I will be happy if my husband becomes normal.

1 Doctor Answered
Your husband seems to be suffering from schizophrenia, you need to confirm the same from his psychiatrist. They have cheated you by hiding, from what you say. You must have reported this to your parents and got off the marriage in the 1st instance, since you faced the hurdles and living entire life with someone suffering from schizophrenia is a challenge. Since, you have decided to live with him and now even have a child, you have to take care of his mental health. When he visits his psychiatrist, go along with him describe the symptoms and get the medications tailored for the same. Learn about living with spouse suffering from this illness, from the doctor and reliable forums and get adjusted. Hope this helps.
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