Today, I feel alone and depressed. I loved someone and Now she does not want stay with me because of her family and society. I told her a lot of time that I am alone please come back. But She did not. I am feeling suicidal. I have no one , excepting my family .
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If you had broken up and you are still thinking about her, it only means that you loved this girl very much. I hope you were not the one to break up with her or were not the cause in any way. If it was, then you have played a game and now you have regrets. The clock cannot be turned back again, I suppose. The trouble is that you feel suicidal many times over this love affair. This means that you might have entered into a symbiosis and her leaving has become life-threatening. That itself might be the reason for the breakup. Girls want a relationship where independence is respected and there is no clingy behavior. You have got to look into this aspect of your personality. Are you becoming too dependent on the girl and therefore demanding? this is not a welcome feature for a girl to want to maintain this relationship. You must develop yourself to become independent and responsible. Maintain respectful distance. There are three important developments in an individual that creates an autonomous personality: intimacy, awareness, and spontaneity. Of these, awareness is of great importance: it will help you know yourself internally and to also make you conscious of other people around you. This person is able to meet his needs and that of the other in a balanced manner. You must learn to do this soon. You are still young and have a lot to learn. If you resolve the symbiosis, you will do really well with relationships. Meet with a counselor and describe your longings, needs and wants, openly. Remove everything that is a reminder of this girl and start working on your development. Life is too precious and no one is worth dying for. Demonstrate how you will look after yourself and work on doing that. Learn independence skills and do a personality development course too.
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Suicide is not good option. If she don't want to stay with you then ask her first the real reason. And don't force her. Don't feel upset and depressed. If she really loves you she will come back for you. And if not god gives you best girl who really loves you. So don't be upset. Live happily. Take care.
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