I'm in relationship with a girl from 18 months. I am realy so much attached to her, also addicted to her. Because she is the 1st relationship for me. But she was in relation wit a boy for 8 months n 2 others for a month each. She slept with 3 before me. But she is the first one for me. Regularly we hav sex. But the thing is she is not so serious abot life. She is not addicted to me as I am to her. So many times v hav broke up even because of some misunderstandings. But she will stay even witot me for long time. But I can not even stay for a minute after fighting wit her. Im realy getting mad by ol these. Sometimes I think v r not made for each other. She is so casual and im litl serious type. After any fight il b mad and il keep checking my mobil to see if I get any msg. Whol day shel b running in my mind. Only reason I do not wana break up is that she wil get a boy within a day and il not b able to get a girl so soon. She wil enjoy witot me even and il b mad and jealous seeing them. So I do not wana see that. Il b too depressed somtyms. I am good looking guy wit nice body maintained at gym. Even il not b able to concentrate on gym. Life is getting fucked up. I do not hav any helping friends even. She is quite rich girl. So she helps me most of the time, she is good at helping. So I do not wana lose tat. Also I wana b casual lik her. I do not wana b serious abot her. How does this situation looks like? Is this case normal? Or im the only 1 lik this? I need some serious treatment to overcome this. please help me. Im a Ambitious and Goal oriented guy having lot of goals in future. But shez Not at ol serious abot anything. Dad earns, shel enjoy. No seriousness. I do not hav any other so close friends. So I am very addicted to this girl. How can I be casual wit her? please help.