Recently I tested my hiv status. It shows negative. Past six months I am not have sex with anybody. I have hiv phobia. I don't like girls only boys I like. If I like to wear condoms and do sex that also I afraid because if condoms tears what happens? I am in deep stress. I don't want sex. But I want to relief from stress. Doctors please give suggestions and save me. I am in deep stress. I am a bottom gay.

Hemant KumarHIV Specialist38yrs exp

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Hello. From your history its not clear when you had exposure and when you did the test? If you practice safe sex by using condom there is less likely hood of transmission of HIV or other STIs, cause condom use is not 100 % guarantee, as you have said about its rupture, but protects well if used consistently and continuosly. Just because you have fear that it may rupture its not a reason not to have sex, anal,vaginal or oral. Consistent and continuos use of condom will protect you from STIs. Use condom with lubrication. You may have 1more HIV 1, HIV2 antigen ,antibody test if your last exposure was by now 90 days. Ie the window period when antibodies are most likely to be positive if one is infected. You can consult online for more deatils if you wish to allay your phobias.  

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