I am having very weak erections and ejaculating in 20 seconds while masturbation. I am 24 years old, unmarried and virgin. I am very tensed. My height is 5'11 and weight 66 kg. I don't have any disease. I am masturbating since 7 years.
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Many men have concerns about their penis size and that it may be too small to satisfy their partner. These concerns cause what is called performance anxiety which can result in problems with sexual response such as problems with erection or ejaculating too quickly. It is very important for you to know that being a good lover and satisfying your partner does not depend on the size of your penis. It is much more important for you to explore your partner's body to discover what feels good for both of you than to be focussed on penetration and how big or hard the penis is. You mention that your erection is not strong though and that you then take 2 mins to ejaculation. If there is a concern that the penis will not stay hard, then one can put pressure on oneself to be 'quick' before the erection is lost. This can cause what is known as premature ejaculation. It would be important to know which occurs first. Does the penis get soft first or is the worry that the ejaculation comes too quickly? These problems may as a result of medical illnesses though. What is essential is that you have a medical examination to make sure that you do not have medical illnesses which can cause damage to the blood vessels, including those supplying the penis. These conditions include high blood pressure, diabetes or raised cholesterol. It would be important to know whether you lose your hardness with every attempt at intercourse, and whether you have good early morning erections or not. If you do then your problem could be psychogenic or due to anxiety as discussed.
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Masturbation is not known to cause weak erections. Guilt about masturbation can have this effect. There's no reason to feel guilty about masturbation. It's a perfectly normal and even healthy thing to do. If you don't wish to do it you just stop doing it. Either way there's no problem.
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