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This is a psychiatric or psychologist problem. I had a serious crush on a girl. When I met her she was in depression and had committed suicide attempts several times after her boyfriend broke up with her. I asked her to be my gf and she agreed. I thought I could love her to help her out if this misery. But its been 2 months, she says she loves me but not as much as her ex. She cries daily for sometime and misses him. But feels like she cannot live without him and will die without him. Sometimes she says he has recovered 80% and sometimes she has only 20%. I do not know what to do. I am damn serious for her and I love her. But she is serious for her ex. Now her ex wants her back What should I do to get her out of her ex? Or is this ever going to work?
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Hello Lybrate user, YOu are very serious about the girl but she is not because you have loved her without any conditions but she came to you for the reason to forget her past. In case you want, she should come to you then first you have to accept her unconditionally with her love towards her ex and also show her how much you care and also strengths of your personality. Strenghts like your care, your emotions etc. But apart from this fact, you have to befriend her before making her your GF. THe first step is Friendship. These could be a few ways that can be done to make her understand you better.
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