I am passing through mental stress. I am love wid some one. We are trying to convince my parents. But my parents are not ready for our marriage. I respect my parents and although they are right from their side and we are right from our side. Now the situation is my boyfriend wants court mrg. He has given me one month to decide either court mrg or broke up. I am totally can't understand. I am in stress. Having bad dreams. Please help me.
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Please cool down. I suggest what your parents want do that. At least you will not loose your parents. Even if you do marriage without their consent the will have to accept it for the sake of society but not from heart. Show them the reason that your decision is best and you will be responsible for the after marriage with your boyfriend whatever it comes. However I suggest think deep before going to any decision. Take Five phos 4 tabs thrice daily.
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There I see no escape from facts. You must know the facts right. At this moment you are in a conflict either to go by your parents or your friend. It's not about what's right and wrong, rather it is a matter of what will bring you more peace at mind? You have to take a call at some point in time. You can talk down with your parents for this. Consult some of your elders or friends, do not stay alone. The stress at this time is inevitable. But if this stress is making decision making difficult consult a counsellor. If possible ask your boyfriend to have patience and ask him for some more time.
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If your boy frind really loves u, he should win your heart by understanding it and your parents and not setting time limit. It is a very unhealthy behavior, if he sets these demands before marriage, after marriage, that too without your parent s support, he can become uncontrollable. I suggest you follow your parents advise, or ask your boy friend to convince your parent s that he will be a suitable groom. All the best.
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You have to weigh the pros and cons and take a decision to gor court marriage or get your parents agree to it . ANalyse why they are not allowing and and think reasonably
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