My dad expired last year in a road accident. It was impossible to bear with the loss but I am controlling myself. But my mother is in a very bad state. She is depressed and has got bp problems. Sometimes its 200. Please help.
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Instead of trying to forget him, give her suggestions that he is with her in form of memory. He can always be recalled. Actually this is done quite successfully in hypnotherapy/n. L. P session in cases of bereavement. If possible get a hypnotherapy session from a qualified hypnotherapist near your local area. Meanwhile you can buy some bach flower medicines usually available at major homeopathy shops and give to her, they are effective & safe. Rock rose white chest nut star of bethlehm honey suckle mix 4-5 drops each of all medicines in a water bottle and let her consume it 4-5 times a day for a month. Remember there is no overdose, you can also have them t. C.
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Dear lybrate user, I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Losing your dad at this age and in a road accident must have been very traumatic for you. You and your mother are going through a very difficult phase in your life. Your dad's tragic and sudden death has affected you both, but in different ways. There is loss support and sudden increase in the responsibilities for you both. This might be causing a huge burden on you both and you might be feeling insecure and lost. At this difficult time when you are emotionally stressed out, it will be difficult for you to live life normally. You may need some more time to come out of this grief. It is advisable to share your sad feelings with each other and/or with your respective friends and relatives. You both need to talk about your pain with someone. It will relieve you of some pain and sadness. I hope your mother is on medication for bp. I would suggest that you both take an appointment with a counsellor, who will help you in this difficult situation so that eventually you both can move on with life. Take care.
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