I am finding my husband's sexual behaviour abnormal. He seems to be asexual. Performs only as a duty. Even if I am in front of him he only gives pecks on the cheeks and lips and cuddle. He asks me to scratch his balls but, refuses to have sex. If at all we have, our only foreplay is smooch and nothing else. He doesn't opens his clothes and comes on top of me with bedsheets over him. He asked me to perform a 69 on the first day after 4 days of marriage. During honeymoon too he couldn't perform. I have to take my orgasm since, his organ doesn't reach till the point. Also we have had infrequent sex in the first 2-3 months and has been deteriorating to such an extent where we have had sex only once in 3 months. 3 times in 8 months to be honest. All this just within a year of our marriage. He is diagnosed with OCPD. Please help! He always says he is tired or stressed. Whereas, he can fidget with his mobile till midnight. He is disinterested in sex as he told me so. Was reluctant to go to the counselor as well.