Hi, my lady friend (married for (3 years) now. Whose husband in under debt. Twice police has warned him to return the money taken on loan from different people. One of them has kept his passport too. When she asks him about his status etc he goes into mute mode and does not reply. And does not discuss the issue at all. She is worried as her job contract is till Dec .But as of now she is managing the finances. How does she handle him. This situation .And course of action. I will connect with her tomorrow. But have too many question to ask her. Maybe her husband is heading towards depression. Or was it his pattern to take loans even before marriage. Should she avoid touching this topic and just be empathetic. Or seek help. Or involve her and his parents after talking to him to seek help. As if he is not able to repay .He may end up in jail I guess. Then what will happen to her!
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She should first talk to him. Ignoring a problem always make it grow bigger. Silence is anyway a criminal way to support someone. If all this fails she should involve his parents and inform them of the status. It is no use if they get involved after he gets locked up. She should try to pre-empt the situation with the parent's involvement and somehow resolve the debt.
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