Dear Sir, My father (age: 56)getting too much angry for small small matters and speaking too hares with me and my wife. Keep on talking about fights happened from very earlier stage and continues every time the same. Also him self assuming that it might be the reason and not accepting if we explained also. Please guide get him out of this stress/behaviors. Thank you.

Hello, Appreciate your positive concern for your father .Let me make it clear that parents develop a lot of insecurity after their children's marriage .One is about the bond that they have with their children might become weak ,the other is about financial insecurity, something about division of responsibilities also alarms them which they generally don't admit .Every human being is likely to make mistakes and we should accept that .In case ,your father has felt something bad about yours or your wife's behaviour talk to him in private and patiently, as a son .Life after marriage is a little different and one needs to strike a balance between the resposibility towards parents and the role towards the spouse. Just because he gets upset don't stop clarifying things patiently and sensibly. Stick to it .Involve your wife in the family with genuine intentions. The journey can be difficult in the beginning but it pays because the family is the backbone of each person. All the best.  

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