Doctor I want to share with you something. i'm in college. But i'm too lonely. My classmates don't talk to me. If I ask something from them regarding any matter. They don't answer me, they ignore me and it makes me so uncomfortable and I loss my confidence too it's about 2 years i'm going through this problem. Even I didn't do anything bad to them. It depress me so much. That what kind of disability I have. Why they do this to me. What's my fault.
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Dear Lybrate User, Thank you for reaching out. I can assure you that you have no disability but it is just the matter of communication and self confidence. It could be that your friends may have different perspectives and don't understand yours. This is mostly a communication issue. Learn to be more assertive when you talk to them, for example, "I really want to watch this movie, I understand that you don't like it but can you just come with me this time and we can do something else that you like the next time. Start with an "I statement" and state what you need clearly. Make sure you say you understand where they're coming from. Sometimes it could be that they have completely different perspectives and it's okay for you to find just a few friends who you have things in common with. Please consult privately for further help. Good luck.
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Hi lybrate-user! Something is lacking in you, may be your tone, your innocence, your confidence and lack of sociality. You need to change your mind set. You should not feel weak if they treat you so. You keep going on and on in your day to schedule of studies in class. You need to concentrate on your studies as much as you can and show your success to them. I want to tell you one thing all of them are not the same, there will be odd man out in every 10 persons at least 1 or 2 will be of soft nature. You need to identify them closely, confirm and approach them and tell about your difficulties and seek their support but always do not reveal your weakness to anyone except your closed ones. You can try to talk to them personally and seek their help. To bring in confidence and courage in you and to let go your low self esteem and inferior feeling you should definitely seek a Professional Psychologist at your locality or online consultation. If you are interested you can contact me either through text chat or online consultation yes you are most welcome. Take care. Never give up. Be strong. With regards
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You might be having some personality issues so not able to gel with others. Kindly consult a psychiatrist or clinical psychologist and get yourself evaluated for the reasons and if needed CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy). All the best.
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