I have been in a few relationships in the past but I wasn't really in love with anyone. But this relationship changed everything. It showed me all the sides of me that I hadn't seen before. I was a lot more attached, emotional, caring, concerned and most of all patient. I just feel that I've finally found someone I can land with. But since I have been in relationships before and I got over them pretty easily, my partner doesn't trust me and when he broke off I am completely devastated, in a way I have never been before. He says that my basic nature was being carefree and not attached to anyone. And what I am feeling is not real. But I don't think that. I think what I am feeling right now is actually real because breaking up and making up has been going on since a few months in this relationship. And I'm still unable to accept it. In the past, when the break ups occurred I could easily cope up with them in a day or two. So what I am asking here is can a person really change in such a way? And Can I be trusted for loyalty and everything even I've had relationships. I'm completely and entirely loyal to this particular person. I was pretty social nd materialistic before and and now I'm so much more comfortable being what I am now. I don't seek validation from others anymore and feel a lot more matured. Can people change really change the way I have? And also, how can I build up my credibility as a loyal person?