Am in luv vth a person nd he is doubting me all the time since 6months, nd I fedl very depressed. I do not knw wat I am doing. I get very excited in less time. Am unable to think about my studies. I get angry, irritated on everyone bcs of this thinking about him. I tried to hang myself in front of him. But der was no result. And I dong want to leave him also. I feel lyk im a psycho or im going mad. Pls help me ouf vth dis kind of disorder.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist46yrs exp

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You are just 19 years and you have already given your life away to someone else!!! Believe me this, no one is worth dying unless you are int eh act of saving them. You are too young to give your heart away like this and that too to someone who can believe you. If you have proven untrustworthy, then his lack of faith in you is understandable. But if that it not true, then this boy ahs a problem of insecurity around you and this could be detrimental to this relationship in the long run too. These signs are supposed to be eye-openers and should help you understand and therefore make the right decision to close this relationship now. Love does not secure a relationship, however intense it is. If you cannot make a decision even after this, then you have a weakness and a problem about discernment. So the writing is clearly on the wall: move out of this relationship because it is life-threatening. It is also disturbing your studies and your nature and your emotions. True love is supposed to bring the best out of you two. If it does not like it is now, run away from it. 

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