Sir Am I performance phobia every time in bed I get this feeling whether I ll be able to perform or not .I don't get strong erection and urge for sex. I used silalnifil tab .which some don't give strong erection Sometime I ejaculate very quickly like 1 min after penetration and sometime it takes very long and don't even come this happen during second time when m doing .Now I have fear that I ll able to perform with medicine. Although I am very physically active as I am in defence. So it like my sex life is getting ruin. I am single my sex life started very late ,at the age of 32 .Which is also not very regular as my partner stay and works in different city. Initially I didn't use my medicine but there was on bad experience where is did get any erection and from there I got very fearful and starred using sildenafil capsules. Sir please suggest some thing what is it that am going through and will I get addicted to these medicine. I used to smoke 5 to 8 cig for last 5 year but now have cut down smoke to less .and I drink couples of times in a week .Sir I am patient of IBS I presently am taking escitalopram oxalate 10 mg one in night and chlordiazepoxide coliseum bromide tabs 2 in day .Plz suggest some remedy for my sex life.