I am 29 but still not settled well in my career as I was busy in my higher education and now people started asking me to get marry but I don't want to I need 2 more years to settled down my question is why senior people ask me to get marry soon otherwise it will be to complicated for you? Does age effects the sexual life if you are not functional? Is it true that I'll face some physical and hormonal problems after 30 to have sex and conceiving a baby as I hadn't yet. Please help all these questions are forcing me to have sex before marriage. What should I do? One more thing I want to tell you that once I fell in love with a man truly but still not get excited to have sex with him after his so many efforts I never get seduced at that time. But after passing a year of this relationship I have started feeling about him in my dreams but I can never ask him for this as we have broke up now after knowing the fact that he is married since 9 years and he is 38. He cheated on me. When I found out his reality then I somehow manage myself to make distance from him. And end this relationship in sake of his wife and kids whether I still love him. He was the only man of my life for whom I felt this much else I had never seen or touch a guy because I never feel for anyone or interested in guys. Now what to do how to control myself to not missing or contacting him. Please help. I am ruining my career too because of these odds in my life. I am feeling helpless. And also I don't want to get marry before relocate myself in all aspects i.e. Job career mental and emotional balance as it will effect my future relationship. What I don't want. Me too want a normal life like other women but I am more carrier conscious. I don't want to suffer whole life with my incomplete dreams due to some defaulters. Please help me.
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People will speak and do whatever they think, it is absolutely not important what people think and say. What is important is what you think and want. Live your life on your terms. There is nothing like the right age to have sex or to marry. In india, it may be ethically wrong to have sex before marriage - but it is your personal decision. If you feel for a person, and it is consensual, its fine, take due precautions - but doing it just to keep your body toned so that you don't have problems holds no ideological basis. Secondly, if you feel the need and do not have a partner, masturbation is the safest and healthiest option. It may seem odd, but its absolutely natural and normal, since we don't discuss female masturbation so often and so openly, it may sound outrageous. But biologically it is normal. If your dreams are more career oriented - go ahead and fulfill them - be true to yourself, never ever compromise on something that you may regret later. If you are happy, content and confident, you will find the right partner, when the time is right. As for your crush, do you see a future in that relationship for yourself? if not, let go of it - forgive him, becoz unless you do that you will be angry and unhappy. Get busy with a routine, spend more time with people who understand you and care for your thoughts and feelings. Do yoga / meditation.
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First of all it is okay to have a desire to move ahead and progress in career. And age don't have much to do your desire or ability to engage and enjoy sex. Many women have given birth to their child is early 30s so that is also not an issue you may still visit gynecologist and get checked for your satisfaction. Now about the guy who is married and have kids. You need to forget about him and move on. Now it is easier said than done. So what could you do? you can have a very concrete goal for next 2 years about where you want to be in your career and you ca also focus on what kind of person you want to get married to have how do you see your marries life. See in order to say no to something you must have a burning desire (yes) for something else. You need to create that burning yes. Working with psychologist or a life coach for few months will help you refocus and bring your energy back to your life your happiness and your satisfaction. Feel free to contact me if you want to explore this option further hope this helps wishing you very best.
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