Hello, I had problem of premature ejaculation. I got married in february and from the first day I had problem. Even I do not have good sex drive whereas erection is not as per expectation. I am a smoker from last 11-12 years. Also I am addicted to watching porn. I have tried to control my smoking habit and now its just 1 cigarette in 2-3 days. I started doing kegel exercise (contraction of pelvic muscles ). I am consuming shilajit (bought from u.s.a. As well as some ayurvedic pastes name as 1.) majoon muscle power, 2.) shan e mard (majoon, avleh, mukavvi ), 3/) khamira abresham hakim. My family doctor gave me this when I was in india and I started consuming it from last few days. Now my concern is my wife is not satisfied with me though she don't speaks I know. I hardly last for 10 seconds after penetration. Right now I am in canada and my wife is in india. But, I want to cure this problem so now when I meet her we can enjoy & do it the proper way. I have one more problem in my urine. When ever I go to pee I pee in breaks & also after few minutes few drops come out while coughing or getting some pressure on penis and sometime I have erection and if I don't masturbate then I feel strong pressure to poop but it's just a pressure. Even it pains in bladder I guess. I don't know where the pain is but yes I have it. I don't know whom to consult or what to do for this issues.