Hi I am married from 2 years and still virgin because I am too scared of pain. I have seen pelvic floor therapist, sexologist, gynaecologist but no results. Also tried topicaine 5 and emma 2.5 that didn’t worked. Now I got lidocaine 5%, ky jelly, and I am looking for any pills or syrup that can make me drowsy so that I won’t resist or help me to overcome fear of pain so that at least my hymen tore once. Please help.
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Hello- its not a mental issue but more of a physical one. Let me explain. Vaginal spasm (vaginismus) is a condition which affects a woman's ability to engage in any form of vaginal penetration, including sexual penetration, insertion of tampons, and gynecological examinations. This is the result of a conditioned reflex of the pubococcygeus (pc) muscle, causing muscles in the vagina to tense suddenly and making any kind of vaginal penetration either painful or impossible. Fortunately, ayurveda has a safe and a natural solution for that. Better switch to ayurveda instead.
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there is a treatment with botoshot which we can help you to to overcome vaginismus
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I feel it is more of a psychological issue than a medical problem. A counseling session will do you more good. If you like you can talk to me for both medicine and a general conversation. We can work it out.
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Hi Jot I understand your situation. This is an issue with the mind, and can not be fixed with medicines or making you drowsy. Why don?t you come for an online or in person consult sometime. Would like to talk to you and address the issue.
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Hello lybrate-user, first of all sex doesn?t cause you as much pain as you feel it cause, if no medication is working upon you then you need to accept that it?s not bcoz of anatomy but bcoz of your thoughts, your fearful thoughts. Sexuality helps fulfil need for human connection. Go for intimate relationship with your partner, emotional touch, foreplay before starting sex. Intimacy can actuallly make you feel better, releases endorphins in body which suppress fear.
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