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I am 30 years old. In the intercourse time felling very pain in my vaginal area. So, I never successful in intercourse. Feeling so embrace. My doc suggest me to use LOX 20% jelly before intercourse. Is that ok for the problem? Is this work properly?

Dr. Ashok Rughani 91% (2159 ratings)
PhD SEXUAL MEDICINE, DGO, MBBS
Sexologist, Ahmedabad
It's better to use Lox 2% 10 minutes before intercourse and have good foreplay including fingering.
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I am recently married (10 days before). Not able to insert my penis into my partner's vagina. even though I penetrated twice I do not feel that it was gone inside. She is having heavy pain when doing sex in any position except side to side. When doing side to side it finds difficult for me to push inside. Also the erection doesn't stay long. What can be the problem?

Dr. Subhash Subramanian 89% (16 ratings)
Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS)
Ayurveda, Thrissur
I am recently married (10 days before). Not able to insert my penis into my partner's vagina. even though I penetrate...
Hi lybrate-user, This is a common condition in Honey moon period. In some individuals, female vagina lacks proper lubrication due to fear or some other reasons and it may leads to pain during penetration. First of all relax, build a rappo with your wife, spend enough time for foreplay etc. With these measures, the problems may subside. If it is not relieving, there is completely natural Ayurvedic lubricating oils, which effectively relive vaginal stiffness and also provide enough lubrication to helps penetration. For your erectile problems, In 2 to 10 % of newly married males experiencing a similar temporary problems with erections, even though they didn't have any previous problems with erections. This condition is called 'Honey moon Impotence' It relieves with in few days of marriage. If your problems persist, it is better to take herbal medicines, because it will improve your confidence to perform and can stop at any time also without any side effects.
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I am 23 years old. I had sex for the 1st time about 3 months ago, and then for 2nd time about 1 week ago. Both times it was very much painful. My vagina was wet before penetration and during intercourse it became totally dry. Is it anything to do with age or physical exercise?

Dr. B.D. Verma 94% (1458 ratings)
Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS)
Sexologist, Lucknow
I am 23 years old. I had sex for the 1st time about 3 months ago, and then for 2nd time about 1 week ago. Both times ...
You can use coconut oil for lubrication during intercourse dryness causes due to fear and lack of interest during sexual intercourse.
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Top 7 Common Sex Problems That You Should Know!

Dr. Rakesh Agarwal 89% (10 ratings)
Bachelor of Ayurvedic Medicine & Surgery (B.A.M.S)
Sexologist, Muzaffarnagar
Top 7 Common Sex Problems That You Should Know!

A physical problem related to intimacy is something that keeps the patient from having a satisfactory intimate experience. Many women encounter many kinds of problems at various stages of their lives. In this article, we have listed the seven most common sex problems that women experience. Take a look to know more!

  1. Lack of sexual desire: A total lack of, or inhibited sexual desire is a problem that may be caused due to factors like age, menopause, stress, hormonal changes, pregnancy and child birth, depression, and even fatigue. Also, a work heavy lifestyle as well as too much focus on areas like children can lead to a situation where sex takes a backseat and after a while, lack of desire sets in.
  2. Anorgasmia: Not being able to orgasm during intercourse despite plenty of stimulations is a problem that some women face. This condition can be of various types including primary, secondary and others, to depict a range of orgasm related issues where a proper sexual release does not occur. This can happen due to causes like infections, past sex related trauma, pain during intercourse and other issues including anxiety and depression.
  3. Painful intercourse: This condition can also be called Vaginismus. A number of causes can trigger pain that women feel in the vaginal area during intercourse, which can lead to vaginal contractions or an involuntary spasm. The causes include endometriosis, STDs or sexually transmitted diseases, ovarian cysts, vaginititis, lack of proper lubrication during sex, and stress.
  4. Arousal problems: Lack of sexual arousal is another problem that can happen due to lack of sufficient stimulation and lubrication which affects the blood flow to the vagina, thus preventing an erection of the clitoris. This condition may also be caused due to stress and relationship problems.
  5. Related ailments: The presence of a chronic ailment can also lead to sexual problems for a member of either sex. When a woman is suffering from diabetes, cardiovascular diseases, drug abuse and other such ailments, then sex related activities tend to take a back seat and are often also hindered due to the symptoms of some of these conditions.
  6. Side effects: Taking medication that has to do with depression or menopause can also have a bearing on the kind of sex life that a woman enjoys as these medicines often create hormonal imbalances and numb certain neurotransmitters with the suppressants that they contain.
  7. Psychological factors: It has been proven medically that stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and other such factors play up on the sex life of a patient in a serious manner. Using frequent practice with proper lubrication and counselling as well, one can overcome such problems. In case you have a concern or query you can always consult an expert & get answers to your questions!
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I have married before 10 months but still now we have not done sex because my wife scare for pain please suggest me what should I do?

Dr. Dinesh Kumar Jagpal 97% (74002 ratings)
MBBS
Sexologist, Panchkula
I have married before 10 months but still now we have not done sex because my wife scare for pain please suggest me w...
You didn't do sex from 10 months as your wife scared of pain. I advise you to do more foreplay of 15 to 20 minutes before going for sex. Use lubricant during sex to avoid pain. Follow this and give feedback.
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Painful Sexual Intercourse I have reddish itchy patches in the glans of my penis and the foreskin becomes irritated probably due to balanitis. Sometimes a ring is formed in the apical portion of the foreskin with ruptures in this skin area. This makes foreskin unable to be folded back easily and also causes pain during intercourse. I have been applying SURFAZ SN cream for last 1 year. Sometimes the problem cures for few days but again recur if the cream is not used. I maintain hygiene as much as possible. Do I stop applying soap to clean the foreskin area? Or is it cleaned only with water? PLEASE help me to cure this irritating health hazard.

Dr. Dinesh Kumar Jagpal 97% (74002 ratings)
MBBS
Sexologist, Panchkula
Painful Sexual Intercourse
I have reddish itchy patches in the glans of my penis and the foreskin becomes irritated p...
You have reddish itchy patches on glans penis and foreskin becomes irritated and get ruptured and does not fold back. I guarantee you best and permanent results for life. You can stop applying surfaz SN. I advise you to tell me whether you are diabetic or not and any addiction to alcohol or cigarette, for better guidance and proper permanent treatment to you, by calling me through Lybrate.
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During sex pain bht hota h .shadi ko 7 month ho chuky h.or pregnancy bhi ni ho rai.

Dr. V. Kumar 89% (1266 ratings)
PGDS, MD, DCP, MBBS
Sexologist, Noida
Sex karna koi yudhh nahi hai na hi yeh sabit karna hai ki male parner bahut shaktishali hai If your vagina is dry or you are not in mood for sex or speed is very harsh in that case pain is bound to happen but aap ko yeh bhi janana chahiye ki yedi vagina me infection hai to pain hoga so consult for your problem to me.
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Hi, I am 25 years old girl. Its been a year of my relationship with my bf. Few months back we tried to have sex but I had extreme pain & irritation. He could insert his 1 finger but when he tries to insert his penis, It pains allot and I feel like its dead end and he is hitting car to the wall. Do all suffer through this much pain in first sex? Or is it something serious and different which need medical treatment.

Dr. Keyur Parmar 90% (119 ratings)
MBBS, MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Bhavnagar
Hi, I am 25 years old girl. Its been a year of my relationship with my bf. Few months back we tried to have sex but I...
Don't worry. Every woman first time experience pain during sex. Basically in virgin woman, hymen is not ruptured, so. Vaginal muscles get relaxed according to once desire and excitement.
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