My daughter is 20 yrs old now.She was a brilliant student upto her intermediate level scored 95%above.Now she is into ?A and is not studying at all.She gets irritated and wild if we ask her to study.She always sits in front of laptop and watches hindi movies or songs.Do not know how to motivate her as I tried my best to convince her about career.Kindlyhelp me
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Your daughter has symptoms of early psychosis and needs psychiatric assessment.
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Kindly take her for career guidance counseling. If she knows her aim in life, she will settle down, slightly. The reason I say this is that at her age she is probably going through a spurt in her male hormone, testosterone. Because of this there are three identified behaviors affected by it: she will become sexually active, aggression and rebelliousness, and she will have acne and pimple problems. It is not because she wants to behave like this; it is the effect of the chemical. I hope your husband is also involved in dealing with her. What you need to essentially follow is this: become her friend and stop all parenting and moralizing (that time is realistically over), meet with her friends and call them over to the house, give her a lot of time, listen to her even when you don?t agree with her (you cannot tell her anything without knowing what she wants to say), follow the path of least resistance, use the help of a close relative she respects, a friend, or teacher to find out about her and to even tell her to do some things you want but all this in strict confidence. You can pass on information about certain things in life and slip in some morals in a very subtle manner, and then let her choose her own course of action. You will fail her grossly, if she did something without sufficient knowledge, which you had but did not share. It is your duty to keep kids informed but without the heavy moralizing. You can also tell her your fears about the possibilities of her choices but let it appear that you are letting her chose. This is all very difficult and you as parents must discuss beforehand what you are going to say and be on the same page, if you have to help her decide. You can be firm but with lots of love. And never, ever reject the girl whatever happens. Always keep all communications open, even if it hurts. When communication stops there is grave danger.
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She need some good friend./ any how she had some depression. In this case she need some counseling.
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Dear, the given information is not enough for a diagnosis, but it seems to be some sort of attitudinal problem. She changed her attitude because some problem and we need to know that to cure her problem. Psychological help needed. Take care.
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She need counseling from good doctor or physiologist.
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