I am working in Metro trains Hyderabad as associate engineer. I have a dream of working abroad and after many attempts I got an opportunity as senior engineer in Bangkok in a very top company. Got the visa everything got processed and the company gave me accommodation and I sold my car and furniture. In two more days I need to go with my family and just two days before my mother had a stomach ache pain and took her to doctor and unfortunately she is diagnosed with ovarian cancer 3rd stage. We had to drop our shifting since I cannot afford for her medical in Bangkok. I feel all my dreams are in vain unable to concentrate, now for every thing I?m feeling anxious. My wife is also having tough time since she has lot of work with my 2 year old son and cooking and taking care of family. I need some suggestions for me and my family. I am feeling lost and alone.

We can understand your problem and we also have sympathy with you, sometimes there are such incidents in life that we can not fulfill all wishes despite with all facility, but at right time you knew about mother's illness, or else you could not come back even after going there only regret Your mom will have some more moments of life left, after that she will never get back to you. But your age is still remain and strength to do again for your dreams to come true. Now you need to take care of your mother. Perhaps it will be realized that how many times you sacrificed many thing to do for your child, just like your mother will have to do the same thing ,as when she is on this stage, then let them enjoy every moment You and your wife are very courteous and deserve for praise and very few people can make such an decision at peak stage of opportunity, you can recover from this situation and as far as economic situation is concerned, there are many NGOs who can help you and Your family can take help from your relatives; Hardly she is with you between 5 to 6 years of your life and then enjoy the moment of his life with him and let your child take the grandmother's love. This is going to happen past for your child also and it is not necessary that sometimes whatever we want, we will get, good opportunities can target you in India too, when you feel lost and alone then stop and wait for the right moment. This is the truth that we and you can not change. You read the Gita and will give you mental strength to overcome these situations.  

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