My husband now caught over whattsap having an extramarital affair. He says its only from last 4 months since he felt I am avoiding him, but he was really happy with me and I found the chats only last week since the phone is always locked by fingerprint, accidentally I found and only few chats which want deleted were seen. Our marriage was on may 2016. He was continuing chat with her ex who was also married even after our marriage. Since I found those beyond limits I stopped it. But now another. What I have to do now.

What I can understand from you r post is that you r husband is having extramarital affair with her ex girlfriend. And you have already caught him once and now he is doing again. First of all I would say that I can really understand what you might be feeling presently in this position but than there is a reality that you have to understand that you r husband is having an affair and now instead of getting frustrated you have to find a solution to it because however helpless you may feel the situation will not be changed and if it can change in any way it will be when you calm you r self and decide to find ways to sort the problem. I would suggest to sit down and write all the possible options you have in this situation and also write the possible pros and cons to a particular decision. Go for decision with max pros and least cons .although I can still suggest to talk to you r husband and ask for his clarification and if he is at fault you can see if you r ready to forgive him on the assurance that he is not going to do it again. All this you have to decide and still if you r confused follow the steps mentioned above.  

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