I have a boyfriend who was lovely and caring before. Now he has changed after 10 months of being together. He used to call me alot but now he never calls and when I call him sometimes he answers, sometimes not. When he answers he is normal and fine. When he do not answer he never calls back. I asked him so many times what happened and all he is saying that he is so busy. I do not know what to do I feel worried and sad and I lost my appetite. What should I do?

Dr. Jagadeesan M.S.Psychiatrist13yrs exp

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thats why people tell love is for 60 days and lust for 30 days. You should be mature in selecting partner who matches in personality and adjustable as well as productive, and responsible. All the best 

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Ms. M Sri Vidhya VenkatesanPsychologist17yrs exp

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Hi lybrate-user! Is he very close to your family or not. Does his parents know about this affair. If so you can patiently wait, if not there must be various reasons for him not talking to you may be his parents are strict or he might be having job pressure or may be he got a new girl friend all depends about how much you know him, his mentality, and what type of character he is etc. It would be better if you could openly ask him whether he will marry you or not. If not ask him the reason why he actually avoids you, should you waste your life waiting for him or not you can ask him directly. If he does not love you anymore, it would be better for you to concentrate on your career and live for your family I mean your parents who struggled hard to educate and grow you up. It would be mean if you keep thinking of someone who does not bother about your welfare when there are well wishers and affectionate people around you who really care about you and sacrificed many for their child to lead an happy life forever. So first find out what his decision is about you, if in case he is going to break out this relationship it would be better if you could start concentrating on your career, education and your beloved family and lead an happy life henceforth. Happiness is not only in love, you can even find happiness in satisfying the desire of your loved ones like your parents and siblings. Take care. Be strong and decide about what you need in your life and your goals. With regards 

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