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Hello doctor. M in relationship. Bt I am very insecure about my boyfriend. I don't allow my bf to talk to any girl ever his friends, my friends n even my cousins too. I can't tolerate that. I just want that he must talk with me only not any other girl. Because my thinking is like he talk to any girl he will give importance to her also. Bt I want him to be mine only. He is too humble. Too kind hearted, he loves me so much even after my so much restrictions he never question me. WHY' like why I am not allow him to do so. He just obey my opinion my wish. He leave his all friends in girls ka becoz of me. Sometimes I curse myself that is becoz of me he is alone. He left his social circle his friends in girls jz because of me I think that I am responsible for his loneliness and spoil his life n even don't allow him to enjoy his college life with friends n social circle. M very fed up from myself. He is suffering due to my suspicious nature. N jz bcoz I would not have any problem any insecurity any stress he leaves everyone. Mostly boys don't do that. Bt he did. Sometimes I am fed up from my nature that why I don't allow him to talk to any girl. What's wrong with me doctor? Why m like this. Why I am doing so. I need to get out of it. I want to. Bt how?
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Hi You have the answer of your queries in your own question. You need to distract your mind and think positive. You need to give yourself and him a little space to deal with your own problems on your own. If this suspicion increases to worse, then you can consult a psychotherapist for the good of your relationship. There are plenty of relations around us between a man and woman other than a romantic one. So be positive, relaxed and see the beauty of it.
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