As I have read in google the circumstances for having sex for the first time like d pain n d bleeding for d first time which has taken me to a state wer now I can not get rid of dis fear n not able to have sex with my husband tried couple of times with him but d moment after foreplay wen v try to go for a intercourse I can not my fear does not allows me to its been more den 10 months after my marriage I worried but my husband never forces me for anything.

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Dr. Rishabh Kumar RanaSexologist13yrs exp

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You need time with your partner! Have long foreplay preferably more than 20 minutes! Let your husband or you check the vagina for lubrication! Then start slowly to have the penis inside! After slow pain it will be enjoyable! Alternatively try to mutually masturbate! There are certain medical conditions where you will have pain in intercourse so if the above methods don't help consult Gyanec for any tests to rule out infections.

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Dr. Tejasvini PatilGynaecologist14yrs exp

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Remove fear as it will cause more discomfort ,try some lubricating gel like my gel application before having sex.

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