Hi i am 28, divorced, college dropout, unhappy person with a night job in a IT company, which I don't like very much. Now I lost that job as well and no openings these days. I'd even met with an accident few years ago, survived with fractured knee, it is well set now but got bow legs. I almost am bald now, have deep holes on face due to pimples. I had so high aspirations in my life some 5-10 years back and I was a very happy person back then. And I feel that my life has completely ruined with all these troubles and loosing hope on my life. I don't have any suicidal tendencies but not liking my life at all. Started smoking and drinking after all these with 10 cigs a day and drinking once a week. I am even worried to remarry now fearing that she might not be happy with me. I don't see any other person with so many troubles like mine.

Hello lybrate-user. At times when life is hard on us, we need to be super strong to tease away our problems and hardships. I am glad that you are resilient enough as even after so many challenges, you are holding yourself with strength. There is a tendency in human beings that if some bad event happens, we tend to think everything in the same light. Same is happening with you also. You have lost the job recently and hence you are remembering all the bad things that had happen in your past. I would suggest that keep up your high spirits and aspirations as people get completely bald, pimples are also common among asians. Take care of your knee as this is something which requires genuine care. I am glad that you are not having suicidal tendencies. Life is unpredictable but giving our best shot is more important. More importantly, give yourself more time. Time is the best healer!  

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