I have been friends with this girl since October 2013. We got so close at that time and she even said that she doesn't want to loose me and would not make such things happen to loose me. That closeness or that bond between us ceased in May 2014. So We never kept in touch till the last week of November 3014. In between that I did call her up to wish her as it was her birthday. She sounded normal. But within that gap (May to November 2014) whenever I tried calling her or tried testing her she would never reply. So in the last week of November I called her with my friend's number because she wouldn't answer my call if I'd call hef with my number. So we spoke on the phone but that bond which was there back then is no longer there. So I tried my best talking to her in order for me to bring the old us. But that didn't really work out. So I told her that I'm coming over to her place to meet her because she's leaving soon for the winter vacations to which she agreed. We met. And when we met I feel like that old bond was still there but it's not upto that point. Since then we've always communicated n kept in touch till date. Her friends even asked me whether I'm in love with her or not so my reply to them was positive. They told me that she knows that I love her and she's happy that I didn't make any proposal yet because she feels like it's good and that wouldn't disturb our studies. Her friends even said that she's into me so why didn't I propose her? And right now I feel like that bond we had back then is pumping again. So to me I really want her to be a part of my life n spend my lifetime with her. But my problem is the proposal part. I don't know where/when/how to start moreover I don't want to loose her ever again. Please help.
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There are things you want, there are things you do and there are things you get in life. There is hardly any relation between the first and the last. Letting someone know how you feel is usually a good idea. However, do not put a condition of getting what you want. The other person may not share your feelings. Things may not work out your way for various reasons. Or they may. But there is no guarantee. What you want to do is up to you. If you are unsure about your feelings, you can wait. Time will make things clearer to both of you. Feelings change in every relationship. Talking will help you get clarity and planning for the future.
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I would like to tell you that because you both are studying right now ,you both must focus on studies and career Keep your relationship status in friendship mode only. Let the time decide. First achieve your career goals. Till then if it is unclear then you may ask her directly.
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