I am in relationship and I feel very depressed bcoz I don't understand her whether she has those feelings for me or not I don't she loves me or not although she says she loves me bt her response doesn't show like. 24� 7 I am thinking about her only I am not able to concentrate anywhere not on my studies as well. I want to deviate my mind from her bt I am not able to sometimes I feel this depression is effecting my health also is there any medicine so that I may not get into depression. I don't want that stat depression and psycho types.

Dr. Armaan PandeyPsychiatrist10yrs exp

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There is a difference between love and obsession. Caring, having affectionate feelings and feeling attracted to someone is good. But asking that person to become your only source of emotional fulfilment is frustrating to both the partners. Every relationship has a risk of not working out. You need to live with that risk. You partners love and devotion to you cannot by guaranteed by anyone, including her. We trust by accepting that even if it fails, we will be okay. If you feel unhappy and dissatisfied in the relationship you can walk out. You have the option. But remember that everyone has their own way of loving and expressing love. If you find yourself too distressed then get professional counseling.  

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