I am married for 11 years and my husband and I have been in love and a beautiful relationship since 14 years. I got to know 2 months back that in our first year of marriage he has cheated on me and been in a relation for almost a year. I can't believe he did this to me when we had the best of relation. He says he used to love me then also but lost the value and respect for our relation that is why lost way and cheated. He says there was nothing missing from my side, I was showering him with all the love, it is just we was weak and did not value our relation He says it was over 10 years back as he felt the guilt. I do not have proof and he says the proof that I saw was the last that he met her. I love him now also and have 2 beautiful daughters from this marriage. I want to know can someone love and cheat at the same time. I am going mad thinking that when our relationship was so perfect then why this happened.