Hi I am a 25 year old female from delhi. I am suffering from 'vaginismus' (google helped me in finding out the name). I have been dating my partner from the past 7 years and we still have not been able to do sex and the problem is mine. I just can not bear the pain when he tries to penetrate. It goes inside a little bit but after a point it just does not go because the pain is unbearable and I push him away. We do a lot of foreplay, I am always very much wet, we have tried all the lubricants and numbing creams but the pain is severe. I am too shy to visit a doctor. Please help me because this is really frustrating. We are planning to get married soon and I do not want this problem to continue. Please suggest me some good medicine or any ointment or anything that is of help. Thank you.