I am married but I always see other women doing sex with me in my dreams. I don't want to think but it keep going in my mind in day time also. Some time it be about a woman who is in my close relation. Normally I never think to do so. I feel very bad. Please advise how can I get rid from this problem.

Dr. Sharanabasappa AlgoodkarPsychiatrist12yrs exp

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Hi, first thing you need not worry about your dreams bcz it is not under your control or you can't choose what kind of seems you want. You need to ignore about it, need not feel bad of it. If at all you are getting these kind of thoughts in day time also and not controllable by you and if it repeatative, lasting more than 2 hours a day, it may be an obsession or obsession secondary to depression than you needs to consult psychiatrist. 

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Dr. Saptarshi AdhikariPsychologist13yrs exp

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First of all thinking about sexual fantasy is not crime dear. We are human being so do we have the biological urge as a natural phenomena. You do not need to worry about it. First you should convince yourself that you are not committing any crime, accept as it is. Because your thought is not always leads to your action. Forget' what if' component from your thought diction. Everything will be fine. If you want to hear more from me click on the private consult button. Take care. 

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Do not think much about dreams, they will be only dreams. Neglect them. One question of doubt is probably you are not happy with your marriage or you are expecting more from your wife. Don't get obsessive with it. It will reduce as you get close with wife. Focus more with your wife. For more information, you can consult online. 

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Dr. Jagadeesan M.S.Psychiatrist13yrs exp

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Dont feel guilty, it is normal. There are many men who feel the same but dont express or come out with that. Lust and love are different. Lust u can have with any women, but love with only special ones. So remove your guilt and dont try to control your sexual fantasies, more you control more u will feel depressed. Only is u act out on the fantasies it is wrong. All the best 

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Dr. Sajeev KumarGeneral Physician32yrs exp

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These fantasies are common in men and you have to get mind control and be sensible. Meditation and yoga will help you get mind control. 

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