Hi I am 28 years old and my wife is 25 who got married 9 months back. We were trying to have sex but every time we try the penetration is not happening properly and we are not satisfied. Initially my wife was scared and didn't allow me to. We even tried using lubricant which was not of much help. By the time she gets comfortable my erection is going down. Now after many trails what I feel is I am not able to make myself erect for much time where I can guidemonths back. We were trying to have sex but every time we try the penetration is not happening properly and we are not satisfied. Initially my wife was scared and didn't allow me to. We even tried using lubricant which was not of much help. By the time she gets comfortable my erection is going down. Now after many trails what I feel is I am not able to make myself erect for much time where I can goahead. I think I need a lower dose of erectile dysfunction medicine where I can get some time to create a pace to have penetration. Please suggest.
Ask Free Question
At your age and you stage chances are more that you are not able to have proper erection because of performance anxiety. You should relax and make your partener comfortable too. Probably she is scared of the act. With mutual support and understanding, you will be able to enjoy this pleasurable act.
Ask Free Question
I feel both of you are erection-penetration focused right from day one. Lack of basic understanding in quality sexuality and sexual matters is the basic cause of this frustration. Reason why it happens is by and large people learn only erection-penetration in sexuality and that too halfheartedly from hearsay guidance and porn watching which are not right methods for long-term marital relationship. I suggest both of you to sit down and discuss self joy and pleasure areas and then connect an expert sexologist either me or anyone nearby, either online or in person for proper quality learning, guidance and support. Believe me this is better then looking for medicines, which you better need to avoid. All the best.
Take help from the best doctors
Ask a free question
Get FREE multiple opinions from Doctors
