I am in love with someone, I am addicted to him a lot. I try to do whatever I can do for him. But sometimes I feel I am avoiding my inner voice and my self esteem. I cannot live without him. But I want to love myself more than him or at least respect myself for what I am. I do not want to chase him or make myself perfect. Though sometimes I fight a lot with him. I want to chase my dreams, my career n be independent. Kindly suggest a way out.