Hello, doctor I am a 18 year boy. I am in relationship for 2 years. I love my partner too much. There is nothing more important in my life then her. But I don't know what happened to her. First I should tell you that her father is druggist and don type man. I am very cultural and I don't like her father. She know this. But don't have any problem. If he got that we both in relationship then he will kill her daughter. Since last 2 months she does not live happily with me she always fight with me. And she is giving more importance to other people than me. And just trying to leave me. When people whom she gives more importance cheat her she cries before me and shows me anger. She tells that this is her right on me to get angry. But when I got angry she. Just forget it. She never call me first if she made mistake though I have to call her and sorry. She loves her father too much. But before this she has told me that no one in world is more important than me for her. It was a time when she can not leave a single day without me and now I am shocked by her behavior. Some times I beg her for not to fight and plzz give me back my sweet heart. But she don't. What is happening to her. What should I do doctor. I will suicide if she don't change her behave. Plzzzz help me how to treat her to ger her love back. Plzzz help.
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Either both of you togather meet counsellor they will b able to sort this out between you both. There are chances that she have realised the importance of her father. Don't know story from her part so difficult to judge. But I can see that you really love her please consult counsellor for further assistance please book appointment online here or opt for appointments at clinic.
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Dear lybrate-user . Managing relationships is not easy. It is a skill and one improves with practice and experience. You must consult a psychotherapist or a psychiatrist in your area (preferably one who practices CBT - cognitive behavioural therapy) or a school/college counsellor. Please try to learn from that expert what is happening in your relationship and what if at all are the mistakes you could be making. Examine with the therapist your goals and motivations in pursuing this relationship. Be patient with yourself, be honest with your therapist, do the work and grow because of the experience. Once you develop insight into your problem you will see the solution clearly and you will know that putting your life at stake here is not wise. Good luck.
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