Sir I have a problem watching videos in youtube in that heroine beats innocent hero by using whip (korada)(ex: film khaidi no 786) or villian beats innocent woman in the form of flogging (tied to pole). I am always searching whipping, spanking, or canning scenes in movies after watching within a fraction of sec. I will MASTURBATING by feeling fantasy of my schoolgirl thinking that I am a slave (servant) of her she giving coral punishment to me, After masturbating I feel guilty lot of time I am wasting unnecessary things how to overcome to it.

Dr. Arvind BhavePsychiatrist28yrs exp

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Dear lybrate-user, You seem to have a sexual fetish. It is not a serious illness by itself unless you feel compelled to act on your fantasy. That would be a problem. Also your fantasy seems to cause you guilt and you are not comfortable with it. I would also need to know how this is affecting other areas of your life. CBT (cognitive behaviour therapy) should help you overcome your problems. Kindly consult a psychiatrist for CBT regarding your fetish. Several treatment sessions could be required and a close follow up is essential till you overcome the problem. As such consulting a local doctor is advisable. However for your information I've been able to help one patient based in the US who had similar problems and who could overcome it with help from me. He is now happily married. 

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